latinacorazon Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) So I'm a Mexican single mother of one boy who will be three this month. Its been over a year now since me and my ex husband separated, my sons father is still there for him we keep things very civil when it comes down to our baby. We even try getting along for the sake of our son, we want the best for him and we are able to put our differences aside more than anything. I had't started dating for many reasons, getting over the depression my previous relationship had caused me, My baby's father and I were together for about 7 years, everything was perfect till he woke up one day and decided he didn't love me anymore. I loved this man dearly, him and my son mean the world to me i would do anything for them. Back on the subject he really hurt me, it was something i never expected from him out of the blue. This whole time i been single i have realized a lot. I tormented myself every night blaming me for everything trying to figure out what i did wrong, and how could i change it. Truth is he was just one selfish snake all along. Who didn't care about the vows he made me or God. For that i learned to move on. There was nothing i could do but pray for him and till this day if he ever needs anything i'm there for him . My son loves him and he is still a very good father to our son. However i have noticed lately that he tries to flirt and even invited me to dinner. I said no because honestly he doesn't even deserve me as a friend. But God has helped me, its been over a year now and i can say i got over everything for the better of me an my son. I can finally see him and not hurt inside. I have learned to forgive him. For that reason i started dating someone really special to me. Two months ago i met this wonderful Vietnamese guy at a party with some of my friends. We became friend and been spending a lot of weekends together. I really enjoy his company and i know he loves mine. There is so much chemistry between us its insane . I know he comes from a whole different culture and it attracts me even more. The thing is, i am really scared because i know he wants something serious with me but he never mentions my son in anything. He knows i have a son from the start its just like i don't know how to ask him if he has a problem with it or anything. I'm pretty much confused, has me thinking a lot lately since he said he doesnt want any kids till he finishes school, he will be 26 this year. I know he will be good to my son since he is just a loving and caring person. Maybe im thinking about it to much, its only been two months should i wait and see were this could go before i introduce them to each other? Its so hard dating when your a mother. Not only that he wants me to meet his parents, like did he tell them i have a son ? will they be ok with that? I dont know if he is avoiding the fact that i have one but its really bothering me. Maybe i need to do something about it ? Its just to many questions i wish i could understand it all. P.S He keeps asking me if my parents would ever approve of me dating or marrying an asian guy? I dont understand why ? Edited October 2, 2012 by latinacorazon Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Breeze Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 I'm not sure you're actually in the right place for your question. I will respond though. Two months isn't very long but I would be concerned if he never mentions your son at all. I'd think even if they hadn't met he would be taking an interest in things in your life. I'm not the type to wonder so I'd probably ask what his thoughts are about stepkids. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 Why do you keep posting the same thing over and over again under different names, and always in the wrong section? Troll. Link to post Share on other sites
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