lovely57 Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) Hey everyone I've read some of the messages with a similar tittle to mine and I want to express my own personal "problems". So, (this is the first time I kind of admitt this "out loud") I'm obsessed with my ex-boyfriend's ex. He and I started dating right after they broke up. I already knew him from high school, right before they started dating, which took about 2 years. He was member of a friend's band and the two of them were known for the "companionship relation", it was cute at the time. They were besties and each other's lover. Since he and I started dating, I was always really jealous of their relationship 'cause they did all this amazing stuff together that I knew we wouldn't be able to do (my family is very strict in terms of me dating). I became very obsessed with her when I knew stuff about her, for instance: she liked A LOT of things I liked as well. When she creatd a fb account, I would stalk her from my bf account and I would see a lot of posts that well, could be my own. It freaked my out at the time! I became a bit of obsessing with being friends with her because she is so similar to me in such ways and I never had a friend who was a lot like me 'cause I always thought I was a bit strange myself (equal taste in music, fashion, art, etc). Recently, he and I broke up because our relationship was getting too tiring. We were always arguing and stuff it reached a point it wasn't really healthy and good for us, so I broke up. At the moment I thought this could be one of the reasons we broke up because she dates someone new and they're relationship seem amazing but then, after I really thought about it, it had nothing to do with it. Little time after that, I went to her college with a friend and actually said hello to her and she and I started talking, she gave me her number. We talked the whole day via text msg and fb but then, we never spoke again but I STILL feel the same way, like I really wanna be friends with her but don't wanna seem like a stalker or something. Sorry for the long post but I really need opinions on this, 'cause I don't wanna be obsessive with her to the point she thinks I'm crazy for her or smth, I really hope she doesn't think that already! HELP PLEASE! Edited October 2, 2012 by lovely57 Link to post Share on other sites
kae Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 u seem single white female ish... thats is scarey. Moooove on... ok.. Link to post Share on other sites
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