jsweffff Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Me and my g/f have been dating for over 7 months and she is bi and well we talked it over a little and I brought up the topic of a 3 some and she asked if I wanted to try it I said sure and what not we were having problems with her ex and what not and she is also VERY OUTGOING sometimes To outgoing for her own good. I just want to know would it be a good Idea if we did do this or would it be better for us to just wait and do it later on in are lives that way we try to get through this I love her very much and I ask her every time we talk if she is honestly sure she wants to do this and she says yes everytime so no I'm not pressureing her and I do want to do it also. I just need to know would it ruin my relationship if we did do it or would it make it a little more interesting (I've only had sex with one woman and thats the girl I'm with now she's been with one other guy and thats it). Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 A threesome will definitely change your relationship. It may not be a wise thing to do, considering she is your first true intimate partner. If she is okay with you being with another woman in bed, you must then be okay with her bringing another man into the bedroom as well, should she wish to do so. If you are not okay with this, then you most likely are not ready to deal with the changes a threesome can bring about. The experience will affect at least one of you emotionally in some manner. If you are in a committed relationship with your girlfriend, why do you need, or want, another girl in bed? You mentioned having problems with her ex. Is there any further relevance to this? How do these problems play into the present situation concerning the topic of a threesome? Link to post Share on other sites
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