Ana Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Hey, just a general enquiry, to which I'm sure I will get varied responses... I have been out with many men in my lifetime and have NEVER met a man who knows how to give oral. While some won't even try (don't worry, I give those selfish jerks the flick fast), the others just seem to have no idea on how to bring me to orgasm by going downtown. I have tried to show them, but they either lose interest ('too much work', one said), or just continue with the old A,B,C method. It annoys me because now I just cant be bothered with it because I know it will be a dissapointment. I love giving oral so it seems I'm not really getting my fair share. Out of the 7 girlfriends I have asked, only 1 regularly cums from her bf going down. The others have given up. Is this a widespread thing? Link to post Share on other sites
dudesomewhere Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 check a post (or 2) of mine on this... I love it...btw I also love actual sushi...so damn it all if you got me all on the sushi thing and it's about oral...now I love both so I'm sorta p'd . Yes giving...I love giving it to women...but like I said in a post...only if she's clean. Oh yeah...btw, the 2 that I've done it for (and were clean) say I do it very well...and they always ask me to do it for them...so I'm guessing I do do it quite well Link to post Share on other sites
thecake Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 a spicy tuna roll and some maguro...yummy. Most of the men I've been involved with were amazing at this....definitely knew what they were doing in this area but they also LOVED doing it...I think that's the key. I hate the guys who do it out of a sense of obligation or something and obviously don't know what they're doing...I'd rather do other stuff in those situations. I've dated older men most of my life...maybe that has something to do with it...experience.....? Link to post Share on other sites
alicia24 Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 My honey loves doing it and he is fabulous at it. Link to post Share on other sites
caz_cheer_jenn Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 The only way I have an orgasm is through clitoral stimulation, so the guy/girl going down on me is an essential part of sex. Every person I have been with has loved being down there, and sometimes it takes me quite a while. I've been with some real troopers who stuck it out and licked, sucked, and fingered for all of 30 minutes or more....LOVE THEM! But seriously, in order for someone to enjoy doing it, you have to be clean and odor-free. And the taste can be a factor too...some women taste very tangy and some are more sweet (if anyone knows why this occurs and how someone can change this, please let me know!). So, make sure that you are diligent with your personal hygiene and they will be more willing to go down south for a bit...and if they say it's too much work or they don't like to do it, then they get the BOOT real fast! Link to post Share on other sites
sweetadeline Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 I've heard that diet has an effect on the way women (and men) taste. Does anyone know if there's any truth to that idea or if it's another urban legend? Link to post Share on other sites
YellowLioness Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Wow, now I have a craving for some wasabi and pickled ginger... and some spicy tuna rolls, or maybe some california rolls.... Darn it! ;-) Oh, I get off when my boyfriend performs oral. I couldn't imagine life with out it. I don't get off any other way... especially not through just regular vaginal stimulation. Ive gotten oral sex for up to an hour before. (Yes, I am very loved. :-)) Hrmph... it takes work going down on a man, too! You tell 'im the next time he refuses. :-P Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Nearly every girl that I have ever been with has regularly reached orgasm, or multiple orgasms, thanks to my performing oral sex on them. I love to do it, and have always been told that I am quite good at it. I do not do that "lick the alphabet" strategy, as I have found other things which seem to work quite well. I like performing oral so much, that a few times in combination with intercourse, I have made people orgasm fourteen, fifteen, twenty times in one day over the period of a few hours. Sometimes I just like to please, and I suppose that if someone is very into doing a particular thing to please another, one becomes good at it. Depending on how tired my jaw gets, and if I do not have a headache or feel icky in any way, I can go four an hour or so, sometimes more, pleasing someone else. Diet does have an effect on how one tastes, be it man or woman. I drink a lot of tea, eat a lot of fruit, and drink a lot of fruit juice. I have many times been complimented on my "taste". There was one person who drank a lot of cranberry juice, and she tasted quite a bit like cranberry juice to tell the honest truth. People who had less desirable diets would, at times, taste or smell a little too strong. Link to post Share on other sites
YellowLioness Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Faux--- you look like David Duchovney from the X-Files in that avatar. Anyway, I've heard and experienced the same thing. The better the diet, the better the taste. Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Originally posted by YellowLioness Faux--- you look like David Duchovney from the X-Files in that avatar. Maybe this is why I have a thing for redheads. Beautiful hair is just wonderful! I certainly look good when dressed up in a long coat, or a suit. Unfortunately, I don't have enough money to have any of those things at present. Link to post Share on other sites
Dulce_Angel_Whispers Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 I think women are probably always going to be better at this because we know what we like therefor we know how to please other women. I think it comes more naturally. I have dated a couple of men who know how to please but honestly the women have always done it better. Link to post Share on other sites
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