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in a pickle

im 26

currently living with gf "Y"(no pun intended :p) of 3+ years for the last 1.5 years.

not liking it since long ago.

was never in love.

she cheated and had emotional affair with coworker.

i started talking to my ex "X" whom i never got over after 5 years of estrangement.

i really love this girl, shes perfect for me.

shes beautiful, cute, gorgeous, hot etc. i know its not just cause i love her.

now in long distance affair and we really want to eventually move in together.

apt lease with Y ends January

i want to move in with my sister afterwards

Y will freak out if i leave her and specially if its for X which she is very wary of.

i dont know how to go about this

i dont want to be with her anymore

i have left her many times before for her infidelities

she always came back begging

i cant be with a cheater, tho i myself am doing it atm i dont see it wrong at all. I am deeply in love with X and the feeling is mutual, i know that sounds super corny but i havent felt this alive in years... i know thats corny too lol

but i dont care im in love, and dont forget Y cheated on me repeatedly.

i want to get on with my life and finally be completely happy.

a relationship with X has been the best thing that ever happened to me and this rekindling of ours is a blessing to me. Though it makes me extremely nervous because this is not like me i am not a cheater i do not enjoy sneaking around. but X and i once made a pact that we'd still see each other even though other people were in the picture, which we have.

what happened between X and i was very complicated and very frustrating at times but im happy we eventually overcame that after 5 years.

we have a long history together and built endless memories we cant just toss.

How do I finally leave her "y"?

she'll make excuses to see me or to give me something back

she will randomly hang out with my sisters just so she can be closer to me

i dont get her, why would you cheat on someone you cant let go?

it really upsets me

shes going to freak out when she realizes im back with X

how do i break up with her without her being too heartbroken?

or should i just be an ******* and let her suffer more for what she did?

i think shes paid enough from me giving her so much crap about it for the last 2+ years

but i dont want a life with her

Once a cheater always a cheater and thats the truth

i myself am a cheater but i would not cheat on someone i am in love with.

thats just not cool..

what should i do?

whats your take on this?

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ThatJustHappened

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in a pickle

im 26

currently living with gf "Y"(no pun intended :p) of 3+ years for the last 1.5 years.

not liking it since long ago.

was never in love.

she cheated and had emotional affair with coworker.

i started talking to my ex "X" whom i never got over after 5 years of estrangement.

i really love this girl, shes perfect for me.

shes beautiful, cute, gorgeous, hot etc. i know its not just cause i love her.

now in long distance affair and we really want to eventually move in together.

apt lease with Y ends January

i want to move in with my sister afterwards

Y will freak out if i leave her and specially if its for X which she is very wary of.

i dont know how to go about this

i dont want to be with her anymore

i have left her many times before for her infidelities

she always came back begging

i cant be with a cheater, tho i myself am doing it atm i dont see it wrong at all. I am deeply in love with X and the feeling is mutual, i know that sounds super corny but i havent felt this alive in years... i know thats corny too lol

but i dont care im in love, and dont forget Y cheated on me repeatedly.

i want to get on with my life and finally be completely happy.

a relationship with X has been the best thing that ever happened to me and this rekindling of ours is a blessing to me. Though it makes me extremely nervous because this is not like me i am not a cheater i do not enjoy sneaking around. but X and i once made a pact that we'd still see each other even though other people were in the picture, which we have.

what happened between X and i was very complicated and very frustrating at times but im happy we eventually overcame that after 5 years.

we have a long history together and built endless memories we cant just toss.

How do I finally leave her "y"?

she'll make excuses to see me or to give me something back

she will randomly hang out with my sisters just so she can be closer to me

i dont get her, why would you cheat on someone you cant let go?

it really upsets me

shes going to freak out when she realizes im back with X

how do i break up with her without her being too heartbroken?

or should i just be an ******* and let her suffer more for what she did?

i think shes paid enough from me giving her so much crap about it for the last 2+ years

but i dont want a life with her

Once a cheater always a cheater and thats the truth

i myself am a cheater but i would not cheat on someone i am in love with.

thats just not cool..

what should i do?

whats your take on this?

 

You don't. Break ups are hard and people get hurt. Strap on a pair and just do it already..you're wasting your time and Y's. You're not being fair to Y either by staying with her. The longer you stay with her, the more of her life you're wasting.

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You don't. Break ups are hard and people get hurt. Strap on a pair and just do it already..you're wasting your time and Y's. You're not being fair to Y either by staying with her. The longer you stay with her, the more of her life you're wasting.

 

Exactly what I was going to say!

 

Just break up with her and give her the same vague reasons a woman would give you "I just suck at relationships" "I'm just not in love with you anymore"

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Exactly what I was going to say!

 

Just break up with her and give her the same vague reasons a woman would give you "I just suck at relationships" "I'm just not in love with you anymore"

 

Giving vague non-reasons is cowardly and mean.

 

OP, you owe it to this girl to be honest with her about your relationship. You don't necessarily need to tell her about the other girl, because that has nothing to do with her..but you do need to give her the real reasons why you're dumping her.

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