My husband is going bald and I'm not physically attracted to him anymore?

[2sunny]

Honestly yeah I did. I though I knew what I was going to read.

 

Was my response what you expected?

[Woggle]

Was my response what you expected?

 

No. I expected the women to cheer her on and tell her not to settle for a man who is not good enough for her or something like that.

[TaraMaiden]

Honestly yeah I did. I though I knew what I was going to read.

 

How refreshing that you've been proven wrong.

And how refreshing that you've admitted it.

[Raka]

If you truly love and care for someone you can look past appearance and love for the inside. Whats the point of marriage if you just want a hot guy? Just be single sleep around your whole life.

Edited October 5, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[strongnrelaxed]

(fixed that for you... as you'll see from posts in this thread from some 'other' women, not ALL women are shallow. )

 

This is one of my favorite lines "Not all women are like that"

 

If I told you that you had a better than 50% chance of getting shot if you walked out your front door, would you go out that way or find another way out? I would try an alternate - but that's just silly me.

 

When men experience something over and over and over, they can reasonably say "When women do x" because that is what women do. We KNOW that there may be a few women who do not.

 

Generalizing is not solely the domain of women any longer.

[Pyro]

Okay I did read the two other pages and it is not what I thought. I expected a bunch of why should she settle for an unattractive man kind of comments.

 

Honestly yeah I did. I though I knew what I was going to read.

 

My money is on the fact that you have probably done that more than once during your time on here.

[whichwayisup]

He's only 27 and already losing his hair. i don't mind when guys shave their heads but i dont like natural baldness. its a turn off. worse than wrinkles or grey hair or a beer belly. my husband is 6'0" and in great shape but he looked so much hotter when he had hair. its weird because i think his dad looks great for his age, he's 51, still has all his hair, and its not even totally grey. to be honest, im more attracted to him than to my husband. and when we were having sex i couldn't help thinking about someone from my work.

 

i'm so confused.

 

Just hope that you're understanding when the time comes your husband may not find you that attractive anymore when you put on some weight, get wrinkles, boobs start to sag etc..

 

Not judging you, but you need to figure this out. Aging happens!! So you either love your husband for who he is and his growing baldness, love him through the rough times too - Or you bail now. Divorce and find a man who has more hair.

[Woggle]

I have no issue admitting when I am wrong.

[TaraMaiden]

I have no issue admitting when I am wrong.

No you don't. And that's an admirable quality.

Thanks, Woggle

[TaraMaiden]

Here are some possible solutions for the OP's problem:

 

1. Buy him a wig.

 

2. Put a bag over his head during sex so you don't have to look at his baldness.

 

3. Put a bag over YOUR head during sex you don't have to look at his baldness.

 

4. Chop his head off and just have sex with decapitated corpse.

 

5. Poke your eyes out.

 

LMAO!!

 

Drastic - but effective!

 

(You don't think there might be a middle ground...? )

[Woggle]

Nah she went to visit her old friends who are a two hour drive from here and she came back with a short pixie cut and he dumped her because she looked like a boy. I though he was stupid because she actually looks good with it plus she is one of the good ones.

[Hawaii50]

B-B-But women arent that shallow and once they fall in love with you are attracted to you:laugh:

 

one womAn says something shallow so all womEn are shallow.. Don't say things like that, because by your logic, I'm stupid because you are. Which just isn't the case my forum-friend.

[Woggle]

Her friends were back in town from out of state and one of them is a hairdresser so she gave her a makeover. Trust me there was no funny stuff going on and she is still gutted over the breakup.

[Hawaii50]

I know.. that was mean.

[Cb3657]

Get over it, a guy did something You only expect from women. It really can't shake you world that much to know there are shallow men too.