rdmcnutt Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Lately I've been really wanting to try this. For some reason the idea of going to a bar separately with my wife Gets me really excited. The idea would be that we would both go there pretending to be single and sit separately. Eventually I would approach her and strike up a conversation and pick her up. Would probably want to do a hotel bar so we can run into anybody we knew. Anybody ever try Anything like this? How did it go? Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Lately I've been really wanting to try this. For some reason the idea of going to a bar separately with my wife Gets me really excited. The idea would be that we would both go there pretending to be single and sit separately. Eventually I would approach her and strike up a conversation and pick her up. Would probably want to do a hotel bar so we can run into anybody we knew. Anybody ever try Anything like this? How did it go? Done this. It's enormous fun! Go for it Link to post Share on other sites
Author rdmcnutt Posted October 5, 2012 Author Share Posted October 5, 2012 Now what about if other guys try to flirt with her first and then I approach her afterwards ? I gotta admit a part of me finds that a little hot too. Is that a bad idea? Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Now what about if other guys try to flirt with her first and then I approach her afterwards ? I gotta admit a part of me finds that a little hot too. Is that a bad idea? Ha! If you two agree the rules and it can't get out of hand and you're both happy then you can do whatever you like Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Now what about if other guys try to flirt with her first and then I approach her afterwards ? What about if other guys try to flirt with her - and she ends up liking their method better than yours? "Push off sweetie, can't you see I'm busy...?!" 2 Link to post Share on other sites
sadguy82 Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 HAHA, That's awesome lol This sounds like so much fun, I think of doing this with my wife too. Couples need to have fun with sex. We do our own taxes at home so when the season comes, I always clean up the home office to look more like a professional one. And we do the boss/secretary scenario. Dress up in office attire and go to work....Very fun, enjoy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Didn't do exactly this, since we're not really barflies, but have read loads of erotica that included this, and it certainly sounds hawt! Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Rd, it sounds like fun. Personally, I think the thrill of the chase and competing for her attention is a turn on...but, alas I don't think my wife would go for it. Link to post Share on other sites
Special1122 Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 I thought I was the only. I have been planning this with my wife but things have come up and we have not been able to make it happen. What I did was I wrote a set of rules and a general idea of how things are supposed to play out just to give her an idea. Do not reveal a lot of it that way the element of surprise still there. I considered the fact that more than likely she is going to get hit on but I wasn't to worry about that one. The rule actually permitted her to talk to others hence the fact that we are both supposed to not know each other. There's more to it than just what I explained. I got pretty elaborate with it. Link to post Share on other sites
strongnrelaxed Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 Any man who agrees to this will ruin his marriage. These sorts of things play well in women's magazines and books, but in reality they are fantasies that are necessary for a reason. You need to look into those reasons. You also have to ask yourself - what happens when this trick wears off? To what level will I take it next to keep the excitement going? I know how this comment sounds, but you cannot say I didn't warn you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
strongnrelaxed Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 What about if other guys try to flirt with her - and she ends up liking their method better than yours? "Push off sweetie, can't you see I'm busy...?!" I would call this an inexpensive lesson and handle it appropriately. Link to post Share on other sites
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