turnera Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 forzan, I do understand how families don't always end up the way they are supposed to. In a perfect world, he'd had parents he could feel safe with. Obviously he doesn't, and he turns to you because you are safe. That is SO VERY important to a kid his age. You have the golden opportunity to guide him the right way. As the parent of a 22 year old, I've watched dozens of kids and their parents, and seen what works and what doesn't. You're doing an amazing job of being there for him and showing him the right path. Unfortunately, he doesn't live with you. So the best you can do is share your knowledge and perspective with your sister and her husband, and hope they 'get it.' And, if they don't, you can always explain to your nephew that you tried to do the right thing but his parents just aren't 'enlightened' enough. And then, continue to let him come to you, until he is old enough to do it on his own. Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Since it appears the thread starter has received sufficient feedback and is seeking to resolve the issue, I'll close this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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