Wonder woman 33 Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 Hey guys, I'm trying to make heads or tails of the way my ex feels at the moment. I'm 6 months pregnant and he cheated on me I caught him red handed to which he wouldn't deny it! he said he was sorry but hasn't really made much of an effort at all. We split up and again he's made no effort for either me or the baby he also turned really nasty now too. I don't get what I have done as its him who cheated not me! Why isn't he sorry and upset? He is stubborn but still I don't get it. He all of a sudden has a new gf now too a mutual friend of ours on Facebook told me has he really moved on? we haven't spoken for 3 weeks now I haven't chased him or contacted him once then out of the blue the other day he phones me to tell me a letter that had arrived for me and he had opened it??? Why is he opening my mail and why phone me about it? We work for the same marketing company so why didn't he just bring the letter to work? Instead he was horrible and nasty to me on the phone I don't understand him?? Can anyone help? Thanks lucie x Link to post Share on other sites
gamman Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 Hello. You're probably not going to get the answers you're looking for because, well, who the hell knows? I know the tendency to want to try and understand everything, but unfortunately, you can't. The reality is that is a very unhealthy relationship, and you need to get yourself emotionally/mentally healthy right now. I can't stress this enough, especially since you're soon to have a little one At this point, I would stick to NC the best you can with being pregnant, figure out ways to minimize any drama he can inject into your life -- i.e., getting your mail, opening it, and calling you to tell you, and again, work on you. I know this is all hard, but good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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