samsung Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 My husband cheated on me with someone at work,they have stopped the affair and he swears he loves me and wants to be with me. I hate the fact they still work togather,he is the boss and cannot fire her for obvious reasons, he is looking for other work but could take a while, any advice. Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 hee hee hee....are you friendly with HIS boss? Go to his boss, and rat him out They'll both get fired I have no sympothy for someone who'd cheat on their spouse Then, once you get him fired, leave him Link to post Share on other sites
No1_ImPoRtAnT_2U Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 I don't think that would do much good but cause more drama @home. Do you want him back after he's cheated? Him changing jobs is a good idea but since he cheated once what's going to stop him from doing it again if he meets someone @his new job that he's attracted to? Link to post Share on other sites
Author samsung Posted July 27, 2004 Author Share Posted July 27, 2004 I actually want to stay with him, I think, so by doing that I would lose income.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author samsung Posted July 27, 2004 Author Share Posted July 27, 2004 We have had a great marriage, we stopped talking and drifted, I do think ter is hope but I obsess over her and want to secretly get her fired or make her leave the job so I can move on, i called her 10 million times and she will not return calls, he says they do not really speak to each other in the office but how can i belive that. I has begged me to stop harraasing her he is very fearful of fetting caught. Iwant revenge! Link to post Share on other sites
Author samsung Posted July 27, 2004 Author Share Posted July 27, 2004 Originally posted by No1_ImPoRtAnT_2U I don't think that would do much good but cause more drama @home. Do you want him back after he's cheated? Him changing jobs is a good idea but since he cheated once what's going to stop him from doing it again if he meets someone @his new job that he's attracted to? who knows! I guess there is a chance but everyting is going really well with us know, i just want her toleave her job. Link to post Share on other sites
Pained Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 I don't think it's a good idea to harrass her. For one thing, she didn't do anything more wrong than your husband did, and how would you like it if someone purposely tried to get HIM fired? What if she has children? Do you really want to be that selfish? Secondly, if you keep harrassing her, she may get a restraining order on you. Help him find another job if you still want to try with him, and then leave it be. Link to post Share on other sites
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