mrman Posted July 27, 2004 Share Posted July 27, 2004 Hi, im new to the post got a question for you all . My wife decided to work on a public hoilday that i was hoping she was going to take of as she did last year but the year before that she worked it . She doesnt really have to she told me . She just want to make it easy for hereself on the Monday when she has to go back. Her job asked here and she said yes . Damn this Pissed me Off Big time . I asked here to tell them that you changed your mine . Cause i want to spend that day with here . Also she leaves for work 7:30 to make 9am which is fine to me but she gets home after 9 pm aver night. Where she doesnt have too she can get home at 6 30 - 7pm at the max but she says it makes it easier for her the next day . Damn i cant Win . I swear that she loves this job before me .or someone on it . But she says its not either. Am i wrong for thinking this way? Ill like to hear fron the ladies and Gents please. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Sounds like she doesn't want to spend time at home. Have you asked her lately if she's happy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mrman Posted July 28, 2004 Author Share Posted July 28, 2004 ya i did , she said that she is very much so happy . It must just be me . Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 It could be that she just really enjoys her job. Maybe you should try supporting her by asking about her job and getting involved in this part of her life. It could be that she avoids coming home because she thinks you will nag her. Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 You sure it's a job that she is staying late at? Have you called her after 7pm to see if she is there? Weird that she is so 'happy', working late Link to post Share on other sites
PUHLEEEEZE... Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Is there any way you could meet your wife for lunch or dinner break? Everybody has to eat... Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 It's a well known fact that men define themselves with their work life, and women with their home life. I do think it's a bit curious that it seems to be backwards for you. I would suggest that you do get involved with her work place or at least ask more questions about it. What does she do? And also, do you have children? How old are the two of you? All of these questions need to be answered to get a better understanding of your relationship with her. How long have you been married to her? Are there any other signs that could point to infidelity? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mrman Posted July 29, 2004 Author Share Posted July 29, 2004 ok fiirst im 29 n she is 31, and yes i have been involed with her job asking here stuff about it all the time . And yes i have called her and she has been at work . Thats one thing i know from her in the 6 years that we have been married she doesnt lie to me . And No we dont have any Children yet . Link to post Share on other sites
lurkaholic Posted August 2, 2004 Share Posted August 2, 2004 You say that she could come home at 6 but she stays till 9 so that things are easier. If she has to do that everyday, then she probably has too much work to do. So here's a potential compromise. Ask her if she would come home at 6 or 7 on some days (Tuesday/Thursday, say), and then you will have no qualms if she has to work extra late to make up for it on the other days. So she might come home at 10:30 on a late night, but 6:00 on an early night. Just a thought. Link to post Share on other sites
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