Sgt Pepper Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 First off, there's this girl that I met about a year ago. She's 16 and I just turned 18, and I've liked her ever since we've known each other, but she's had a boyfriend the whole time, up until about two months ago. I'm almost positive she knew that I liked her, and I think she knows that I still do like her. She's always been a shy girl, but I can't really tell because when she's around other guys and girls, she's talkative.....soft-spoken, but still talkative. Now when she had a boyfriend, she was talkative to me. Any time she would see me in the halls at school, she would acknowledge me and make conversation. Now that we go to different schools, I don't see her as much as I did when I was still in high school. But here's where it gets confusing to me. Ever since she broke up with her boyfriend, she's been acting strange around me. Like one day I'll see her driving down the road, and I know she sees me, but she completely ignores me. Then, the next day, I'll see her driving again and she's the first to smile and wave. Also, for example, I saw her in person two days ago, and she said hey and started conversation with me, and she was very friendly to me. Then, I saw her again today, and I KNOW she saw me, but she walked right by me several times, never said a word to me, and just completely ignored me. Now this time, I tried to take initiative and talk to her after she ignored me, but she only spoke to me for about 2 minutes and then left....and she didn't smile or anything, not even when she said bye. It's confusing to me, but maybe it's obvious to you guys, I don't know. One day, she'll talk to me and I'll feel pretty good about it, and then the next day, she'll completely ignore me, and I feel like she hates me. Also, if this means anything, when we were in school together, I had mild acne, I was kinda pale, and I was scrawny. Now, six months later, I have no acne, I'm pretty dark, and I have a pretty good build from working out. I look different, but much better than what I did look like. By the way, two days ago was the first time she had seen me in person since I went through those changes. So I'm just wondering what some of your opinions are. I know I won't be able to get a definite answer because everybody is different, but I would still like some outside opinions. Do you think she's just shy and maybe a little intereseted, or do you think she really just doesn't like me, because after today, I feel like she hates me. Link to post Share on other sites
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 I honestly have no idea. Why don't you ask her out next time you see her? Invite her to a group event. Like a game or night at the movies. Do kids even do group events anymore? Like a bunch of you just go some place and hang out? God I feel so old.. Link to post Share on other sites
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