El Brujo Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 The key is to pick one who speaks some weird language that you've learned to understand. Because then if the wife you've bought decides to run away, who's going to understand her? More than likely if she gets hyper and starts jabbering, the police will clap her into a women's jail and have to drag you down there to bail her out. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 OP, for the most part it doesn't work that way. My best suggestion is to do some traveling to such places and see how it goes. Your socioeconomic status might be more attractive there than in your home country but IME it's still people vs people, not a consumer purchasing a product off the shelf. I've traveled to such places, mainly in my mid-late 30's before getting married and as a tourist since. In the past I got as far as considering a K1 with a particular lady but ended up meeting my exW locally. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted October 20, 2012 Share Posted October 20, 2012 You'd be helping an organization that has caused countless women to become physically and sexually abused. I'd also like to know how you plan on differentiating between willing and non-willing women. Have you ever gone to a third world country? I mean, outside of the tourist areas. I work in lots of different places, many times third world countries and I stay for extended times. Girls try to latch on to foreign guys pretty fast there, like as if I was a millionaire in the states. This is not through any organization. I'd be more worried about the OP getting burned by "organizations" or the girls themselves. No doubt there are some nice women there and an average salary man from the US or Europe+ green card for them will go a long ways towards "attraction". Link to post Share on other sites
VeveCakes Posted November 7, 2012 Share Posted November 7, 2012 The posters who said she will leave and cheat are right. Once she is here she will take off and leave you being responsible for any financial **** she may cause. How do you propose on preventing her from leaving? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 Well it is a possibility and a lot of men do it. You don't necessarily need to buy a wife. You can literally visit a country and you will most likely meet girls from poor communities who are looking for foreign men. It depends on what you are looking for and what you are expecting. If you are looking for genuine love, you will most likely not find it by buying a woman, BUT if you are looking for a wife then that is doable. Many marriages were basically arranged or transactions that didn't involve love. But the modern world is different and we give people the freedom of choice. It doesn't 'sit' right with me, however many men and women do this and it is an option for you. So long as you are outright not buying a woman or partaking in slavery/trafficking, then you are not doing anything wrong, but you do need to be careful. Someone who you establish an intimate relationship with (i.e. you live with, see all the time, have sex with) but does NOT love you, has the potential to hurt and exploit you in many ways (this goes both ways) so do your research on this. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 9, 2012 Share Posted November 9, 2012 Like I said, buying a wife is a bad idea. If you want sex, buy it by the hour. If you want love or a reliable partner you won't be able to buy it anyway. Very true. You can buy sex. But you cannot buy love. You can buy faked love of course, but actual love is one thing that no-one has figured out how to make £££ out of yet Link to post Share on other sites
IT Geek Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong reasons. -Me, 1985 Link to post Share on other sites
Cb3657 Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 Ok I live next to a friend who married a Filipino lady, he got in contact with her through a agency, then went to visit, then brought her back and married her, they have parties and there is a large community of guys who have done this and appear to be happy. I would caution though that where I live they make you 100% accountable for a person you bring in the country for the first few years. I have heard of situations where a person is brought in, leaves, goes on welfare and it cost tens of thousands for the accountable "husband". Also please remember that who you bring will be a person with their own opinions and desires, to say cooking and cleaning are going to make her happy is to be ignorant of how people work, you need a maid then get a maid, cheaper Than a wife. My opinion this is no worse than a arranged marriage, but even in those there are still two real people. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 What is the return policy? Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 What is the return policy? Must be shipped back in original packaging. So don't throw away the box. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nanuk Posted November 10, 2012 Share Posted November 10, 2012 ^^^And don't forget the receipt! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
VodkaShots Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 Let's say you got a hot wife in early 20s from eastern europe. Your chubby average looking American female friends would tell you 'it's so wrong' Every time a girl says that ask her 'If I asked you out, would you give me a chance?' So they wouldn't give you chance but they think they have a right to say such B.S? Go visit there for a while. I am sure they have international program. Wouldn't it be fun studying in prague? Although you might not be able to compete physically with local guys, your background will give you lots of extra credit (english speaking, American citizen) Think about how American women will look at a guy from 3rd country like a trash. why would they do that even though he is the same human being? Luckily those women are from 3rd country and you are not so they will look you up. Every women has gold digger mind at certain degree. your job is to find the one at minimum level. Aren't you an immigrant in the US yourself? It's kind of rude that you spend so much time bashing Americans, particularly the women just because they aren't obedient female slaves and they have the nerve to turn down men they're not attracted to or interested in. I mean, how dare they? Oh BTW the Eastern Europe thing isn't true anymore, a number of Eastern Euro countries (including Poland) are members of the EU, so the ones that want to leave just move to more prosperous, first world EU countries like Britain, France and Germany. They don't have to latch on to some fat, old foreign man for a visa anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
allenpo123 Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 Second that. You will NEVER EVER truly trust her intentions if you buy her. Hang in there.. the right one will come along... Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 If you're talking about the mail-order bride sites, good luck with that. Majority of them are con jobs. Assuming you go to a poor country and find one in person, far be it from me to convince you otherwise, as long as it's consensual. It'll be one less bitter man on LS (assuming that a relationship with a woman who isn't attracted to you makes you happy) and one woman who was just saved from poverty (though at what cost, I shudder to think). Link to post Share on other sites
Nyla Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 I knew a Filipino woman who married a rich German man while she was pregnant with his child. She was a very young mother struggling with her poor but loyal kid's father. She left the young kid for the rich man and as soon as she smelled money, she became pregnant so that the German would marry her. Now she has three more children so that she will has an excuse to stay home and not look for work or an education. An ex boyfriend of mine had a friend who married a Romanian maid. She entered Canada through a sponsorship provided by the family she worked for. The maid could barely speak English when she met my ex's friend. He was ten years her senior and he would not allow her to go to school or work, for fear that she would meet someone else. Sometimes I think men gravitate towards European and Asian women because they feel that it is easier to control women from those countries. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiera D Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 one thing people lack nowdays is the mentality of "be glad with what you have now,and embrace what you have" Too many people nowdays thought they have some kind of absolute right that defies moral obligations,and willingness to do anything in pursuit of their "Happyness" thats my 2 cents TD Link to post Share on other sites
Aslanbek Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 I hope that I do not have to resort to buying a wife. If improving myself does get me a girl, then my problems are solved. However, if something such as my height prevents me from getting a girl and have not experienced any romance in my late 20s or 30's, then I will be left with no choice but to buy one. I would pick the one with most physical appeal. Her personality would not matter becauseI would assert dominance over her. She would be unable to leave me. However, all of this can be avoided if I am able to find love. You would assert dominance over her? And you wonder why you can't find a woman? This sounds like one of those shows about psycho guys who kill their mail order brides because they can't assert dominance over them...... Link to post Share on other sites
Trixis4kidz Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 You would assert dominance over her? And you wonder why you can't find a woman? This sounds like one of those shows about psycho guys who kill their mail order brides because they can't assert dominance over them...... LMAO!!!!! At this one.... nice! Come on people, this guy's not serious. And even if he is, he's in for a rude awakening to the reality of what he's proposing. SUN DEVIL, how about learn some SOCIAL skills before anything else. If you do that, I personally GUARANTEE you'll find a chick. They're plentiful wherever you are. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 The guy is 5 feet. i feel sorry for him. Women, if you ever banged or at least gave a bj to 5 feet guy (not when you were 13) , you Can criticize him. I know 98% won't even look at 5 feet guy. You won't give him a chance, so how can you judge him? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dasein Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 If you are going to buy one, may as well buy three in case one breaks. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted December 1, 2012 Author Share Posted December 1, 2012 I am only half joking. I am currently working on my social skills, but I still worry that I am going to be one of the gus who is 60 years old with no family and no relationship. I still hear about short guys in their 40's who are unable to get girls, but I also hear about other short guys who are successful. i am trying to learn how to be like them. If all else fails, then I will look at buying a wife from places like the middle east where they have no rights and can be purchased. Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 I am only half joking. I am currently working on my social skills, but I still worry that I am going to be one of the gus who is 60 years old with no family and no relationship. I still hear about short guys in their 40's who are unable to get girls, but I also hear about other short guys who are successful. i am trying to learn how to be like them. If all else fails, then I will look at buying a wife from places like the middle east where they have no rights and can be purchased. Really dude? Slave trafficking. Before I was under the impression where the girl was a willing participant, but you actually think you're gonna buy her? You know that is unbelievably illegal right? Link to post Share on other sites
MyPoutine Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 Buy a real doll, the don't need a visa, can't walk and never say ...well anything really. And for a few $1000's you can have them custom-made to your liking. Link to post Share on other sites
ConcernedFriend Posted December 2, 2012 Share Posted December 2, 2012 I'm an attorney who imported and married a software engineer from Canada six years ago. As such, I'm annoyingly familiar with the paperwork required to bring over a spouse. Just so you know, when you marry someone and bring them into the United States, you have to sign documentation stating that you'll be financially responsible for them for nearly a decade and you CANNOT prenup your way out of that. It's a Federal, legally binding obligation. If she ditches you after her green card gives her permanent residency in two years and she can't support herself? That's all you, baby. Just something to think about... Lol, and before someone asks, no, I did not mail-order or buy my husband. We both just happened to live on the border. Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted December 2, 2012 Share Posted December 2, 2012 I am only half joking. I am currently working on my social skills, but I still worry that I am going to be one of the gus who is 60 years old with no family and no relationship. I still hear about short guys in their 40's who are unable to get girls, but I also hear about other short guys who are successful. i am trying to learn how to be like them. If all else fails, then I will look at buying a wife from places like the middle east where they have no rights and can be purchased. Buying a wife doesnt help you escape the work of learning dating dynamics, how to keep a woman attracted to you, and how to maintain a relationship. Its an easy way out in the beginning, and will burn you in the end, especially if you are too naive to see a woman manipulating you. Even if she isnt manipulating you, you have to know how to keep her attracted to you. If you dont she will leave you, and you will be back where you started, with no family. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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