The Ex that Drop's off the Face of the Earth.

[blue_jay_bird]

I DO NOT get this!

 

How on earth can you be truly in love and completely bonded to a person, only to ...IGNORE THEM TOTALLY>?!?!?!?!

 

I would at LEAST have the decency to say " look, you have a serious drug problem, I love you but we cannot be together until you resolve your issues. I am not going to contact you and not allow you to get a hold of me for a good while"

 

.................I used the drug instance because that is one of the ONLY WAY I would throw away a person I truly loved! DRUG ABUSE, physical or verbal abuse, cheating, or extreme selfishness they refuse to address.

 

I feel that most partners who just dissapear were not 100% into and in love with their partner anymore; if they were still truly in love, it is very strange to just leave, rather than try to OVERCOME any drug use or serious issue they felt compelled enough to leave a person they LOVED over.

 

This behaviour is totally bizarre to me, but I am guessing it has a lot to do with guilt and wanting to be rid of the other person without having to deal with their pain and suffering; absolutely SELFISH behaviour, if you ask me:sick:

 

People fall out of love everyday. Your right about "I feel that most partners who just dissapear were not 100% into and in love with their partner anymore; if they were still truly in love, it is very strange to just leave" They aren't truly in love anymore.

 

I always felt life and love is like a living organism. Changing, growing, and or dyeing. IMO, They fell out of love with you. People fall out of love everyday.