clintonsmith Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 My problem is that i only want what I cannot have or something that could possibly leave me. My ex was the most amazing girl, and all the guys wanted to date her, and she was so good to me. but i couldn't make myself love her, or commit to her, and so i pushed her away and neglected her until she found someone else. now she is in love with him, and i have gone nuts. she won't give me the time of day, and she is over me. why do i only want what i can't have!!!! how do i fix this? i have gotten back with her several times, and the same thing happens over and over again. help! Link to post Share on other sites
mronederful Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 time to break the cycle man, or it will break you. show her that you do care for her and let her go. if you love someone wouldn't you want THEM to be happy? even above your own happiness? Link to post Share on other sites
simplybrill Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Maybe she keeps breaking it off because there's not a change in your neglectful behavior? You keep making the same mistakes, and in her mind she's like "great, here he goes again, getting comfortable and falling into his bad behavior again" ask her where things go wrong. And then make changes accordingly. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
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