Robert Z Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 The way I see it, using a hooker is sending the message to god that I am not waiting any longer and that he is failing at finding me love. If I have no relationships by my thirties, I will simply buy a girl from a third world country. Do you honestly think this will bring you happiness using a hooker for sex is not sending any message to God....It shows that you resent women and that you are not respecting them......women were not put on earth to sexually gratify you or to be in a relationship with you.God didn't plan for women to be used this way.....key word used..... you are exhibiting what god does not appreciate.....i have met a few guys like you more than a few.........STOP IT....is that clear.....You dont love women to think like this you would not treat a woman in a relationship with respect because you feel she is serving a purpose for you....nothing that you have said shows that you have love fro women or faith at all......Don't blame god for your inadequacies.....learn how to be a lover before you love a woman....Those guys I knew I gave the same advice and hopefully they took it....and now are happily married and in love with their wives...have faith real faith....God doesn't need your devotion through all your successes he needs your devotion when you are desolate and alone......thats faith......take my advice it comes from my heart...God is not your problem you are your own worst enemy....as a woman I tell you this..I am not judging you I am however telling you your attitude needs adjustment towards using women for sex....deb The man just needs to get laid. His problem is hormones, not attitude. The attitude results from sexual desperation. How can he learn to be a lover without any love? That is like saying a blind man could appreciate art if he would just learn to appreciate color. To be clear, you have no idea if anyone took your advice or if it helped. For all that you know, they all did just the opposite and are now happy, right? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 I think this 'faith in God' is all a load of nonsense. he's just being a little bit trolley-some.... I don't believe he ever had a faith in God to begin with. At all. It's just a flamin' cheek to say that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 The man just needs to get laid. His problem is hormones, not attitude. The attitude results from sexual desperation. How can he learn to be a lover without any love? That is like saying a blind man could appreciate art if he would just learn to appreciate color. To be clear, you have no idea if anyone took your advice or if it helped. For all that you know, they all did just the opposite and are now happy, right? No I dont know if they are happy o rmy scenario is true, but seeing i have hope i can hope for that...i dont have to actually see something up close and personal to have hope for it..you don't particularly know if they did take my advice either so we both dont know either way.... i will let you know that these men weren't happy with just sex they had deeper issues that needed addressing.......getting laid isnt going to help the guy he is saying he wants a hooker to piss god off...to show god what he thinks of him because he cant get a relationship .....i disagree with you about the blind man appreciating art..art doesn't have to have colour...his art might be music that is art. there are different forms of love and you can learn to love if you are with the right artist...everybody has the capacity to love...its ingrained into human nature....i also have hope for that.... using the art analogy once more....getting laid is like having a paintbrush with no canvas to paint on.........he needs the canvas not the paintbrush he has one of them....most men do.the canvas is a loving relationship and the subject is female that he needs to adoringly paint...thats what i believe he has been praying for..... for ten years....he needs to drop the chip and he could possibly have that relationship...but robert you could be right and i could be totally off the show.....wouldn't be the first time.......i just shared my opinion which isnt the same as yours so I agree to disagree.deb 1 Link to post Share on other sites
irin Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 stop blaming god. he is not responsible for you bad attitude. i cant believe i just defended "god" . 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 stop blaming god. he is not responsible for you bad attitude. i cant believe i just defended "god" . :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
BetheButterfly Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 One of the things I desire most in life is to have a girlfriend. When my family went to church, I would always pray for the same thing. This went on for 10 years and nothing happened. If there is a god, I believe that he is probably cruel and sadistic. I constantly am surrounded by girls but none of them will date me. All of my friends have no problem getting girls, yet I still am the only one with no luck. If god plans on me being single for life, I would renounce him. Over the past few months, I am starting to believe that there is no god or afterlife. If there is a god, why would he torture me like this? When I was single, one of the things I most desired in life was to have a wonderful husband who loved me and who I loved. I married the "wrong guy for me" when I was 23 and learned the hard way that both of us were not mature. (That was not due so much to the age factor I think; people can be immature even in their 80s!) One thing that is very important to remember about God is that He is not a genie. He does not exist to give you want you want in life. If so, there would be 0 people who are tortured. There would be 0 people who are raped. There would be 0 people who suffer. Tragically, there are people who experience terrible suffering, which is worse than just not having a girlfriend, yet still believe in God. The reason is because they understand that God is not a Being who always prevents suffering and who always gives us what we want when we want it. Although I personally wish many times that God had created people more like robots and that NO SUFFERING EXISTED, I understand I don't know everything and leave it at that. My trust in God is not dependent in if He answers my prayers or not, but in my understanding that He is God and not me. For Christians, Jesus specifically warned that there would be suffering for his followers. However, we are commanded to love God and to love other people, even our enemies. In most Theist beliefs, one is expected to obey God and if God so chooses to bless with answering "yes" to prayers, that is His decision to make, not ours. Our decisions is whether to obey God or not, whether to believe in Him or not. God does sometimes though not always answer "Yes!" He brought my husband and I together and am so grateful for him!!! However, it took years of waiting and actually experiencing heartbreak in between before my hubby and I met. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 No, his problem is 100% his attitude. Why would a girl ever date someone with his attitude? I think God's doing all those girls a huge favour in pulling them away from this dude. I hate how everybody thinks that bad attitude came first. I'll spell it out. Normal happy dude -> For some reason gets rejected over and over again by girls = Turn into bitter dude. The bad attitude is the result of constant rejection, not the cause. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 I hate how everybody thinks that bad attitude came first. I'll spell it out. Normal happy dude -> For some reason gets rejected over and over again by girls = Turn into bitter dude. The bad attitude is the result of constant rejection, not the cause. It's no excuse though, it will keep you from ever getting there. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 It's no excuse though, it will keep you from ever getting there. Excuse for what? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 10, 2012 Author Share Posted October 10, 2012 If god is really there, he would get me a girl before I resort to prostitution. If I lose virginity that way, then I will know for sure that god does not exist and that religion is nothing but a work of fiction used to scam people. I already put my faith in science, which has done a lot more to help humanity than religion Link to post Share on other sites
Hawaii50 Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 If god is really there, he would get me a girl before I resort to prostitution. If I lose virginity that way, then I will know for sure that god does not exist and that religion is nothing but a work of fiction used to scam people. I already put my faith in science, which has done a lot more to help humanity than religion Maybe god wants you to get a prostitute, your wiener to fall off, and then join the clergy. Sounds like something god would do, he's hilarious. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Eve Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 If god is really there, he would get me a girl before I resort to prostitution. If I lose virginity that way, then I will know for sure that god does not exist and that religion is nothing but a work of fiction used to scam people. I already put my faith in science, which has done a lot more to help humanity than religion Just hurry up and do it already. Stop pretending there is any other end to this. Thankfully God isn't a beat down mother or father. He is busy answering the prayers of those who know Him and who He knows... as you do when there is understanding and a relationship. Lol, I would be PISSED if God was paying any attention to you. He would clearly be an idiot to fall for that act. God can spot trolls. Take care, Eve x 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 10, 2012 Author Share Posted October 10, 2012 If you met me face to face, you would not see desperation or bitterness. It sucks being the only guy who is still a virgin and no experience with girls. I see guys who lie and cheat on their girlfriends and the girls still keep coming to them. I hardly see jerks who are single. So far, I am getting the impression that nice guys finish last. Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 I believe there is an excellent chance we do in fact live in a created reality and that makes someone or some agency effectively god. What he's really up to is a lot more fuzzy to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Eve Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 If you met me face to face, you would not see desperation or bitterness. It sucks being the only guy who is still a virgin and no experience with girls. I see guys who lie and cheat on their girlfriends and the girls still keep coming to them. I hardly see jerks who are single. So far, I am getting the impression that nice guys finish last. *Eve shakes her head* Just get real. Stop with the pretending and get real. You have no testimony of faith, which is a sign that really you are probably following out of familial ties. If what you say is real, get real with God. Seek out what this means in real terms ........ people are not supposed to fill in this blank for you. You need to find your balls otherwise you will continue blaming God for things and bothering those who have faith simply because you have none of your own. Take care, Eve x 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 I believe there is an excellent chance we do in fact live in a created reality and that makes someone or some agency effectively god. What he's really up to is a lot more fuzzy to me. My theology is too much of a muddle to go into, but I'm pretty sure God, whatever He may be, isn't a cosmic Santa Claus. I would've done better on certain college exams if that were the case. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 If you met me face to face, you would not see desperation or bitterness. It sucks being the only guy who is still a virgin and no experience with girls. I see guys who lie and cheat on their girlfriends and the girls still keep coming to them. I hardly see jerks who are single. So far, I am getting the impression that nice guys finish last. I was totally like you, I just lost my virginity in February to a guy who totally didn't care about me at all. It sucked and it was just an endless cycle of like going from guy to guy and it sucks. I am really trying to stop now and focus on other things and getting a relationship but honestly its so not worth it. I hate myself like I think I'm disgusting for the stuff I've done. If I could go back I would have just been a sad miserable virgin (I felt like I was) but had I known then what I know now I would just wait. It's so not worth it honestly. As far as losing faith, I feel like I do lose faith when things don't go my way, I know there is a god and I believe in him but I do wish that I would be blessed with the stuff I actually care a lot about (a boyfriend and baby) but on a better note the guy I am starting to talk to, I'm taking him to church with me soon hopefully I'm pumped because he doesn't go to church much. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 12, 2012 Author Share Posted October 12, 2012 To those of you who say that god is doing girls a favor by keeping them away from me, you are wrong. I will get a girl somehow. If god does not let me find love, then a girl gets purchased instead, and my faith in god and hunamity will be gone completely. However, if I do find love, then my faith will stay. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 To those of you who say that god is doing girls a favor by keeping them away from me, you are wrong. I will get a girl somehow. If god does not let me find love, then a girl gets purchased instead, and my faith in god and hunamity will be gone completely. However, if I do find love, then my faith will stay. That is total absence of faith on your part to say that....you have lost it already.God doesnt work on commission..its remissions of sins through jesus christ.....and then faith is enduring to the end through trials and good times........i wish you the best.....find your faith and i truly hope you do find it.....deb 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TheFinalWord Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 To those of you who say that god is doing girls a favor by keeping them away from me, you are wrong. I will get a girl somehow. If god does not let me find love, then a girl gets purchased instead, and my faith in god and hunamity will be gone completely. However, if I do find love, then my faith will stay. Your quarrel isn't with me, it's with God...which is waste of time and energy BTW. Please stop thinking you can strong arm God. "They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth. Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so also these teachers oppose the truth. They are men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone." -- 2 Timothy 3 You need to repent of this prideful heart, stop trying to strong arm God into submission, and renew your mind in Christ. I'm not trying to bash you, only give you council. Even the non-believers here see your folly: "But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone". If you truly want God's blessing in this area, you are doing the exact opposite of what you need to be doing. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
TheFinalWord Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I hate myself like I think I'm disgusting for the stuff I've done. God loves you 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 12, 2012 Author Share Posted October 12, 2012 I dont think god loves us. There is a lot of suffering in the world. He is unable or unwilling to stop evil. Either way, that shows that he does not deserve our worship or that he does not exist. Link to post Share on other sites
BetheButterfly Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I dont think god loves us. There is a lot of suffering in the world. He is unable or unwilling to stop evil. Either way, that shows that he does not deserve our worship or that he does not exist. I think God loves people, even those who suffer. However I very much hate that people suffer and I am not at all happy that God allows it. My displeasure at suffering does not mean that God is not loving. God I am sure understands and is big enough to deal with a tiny little human's unhappiness at injustice. I don't see the whole picture. I just see details up close. One thing that's very important to remember is that people are supposed to ease other people's suffering. We are supposed to stand up for those experiencing injustice and help people, not hurt them. This makes the world a better place! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted October 12, 2012 Author Share Posted October 12, 2012 God wont stop evil or is unable to stop it. If he is unable, then he is not a god. If he chooses not to stop evil, then he is evil himself. How could anyone stand by and ignore evil and call himself god. Link to post Share on other sites
HisGraceisSufficient Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 God wont stop evil or is unable to stop it. If he is unable, then he is not a god. If he chooses not to stop evil, then he is evil himself. How could anyone stand by and ignore evil and call himself god. Man can choose to stop evil. He doesn't. Why not start there? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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