Simon Ohlund Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 Hello You all must admit this is the truth. Weither they are ugly or hot girls fat skinny or average women only go by looks. If you are a 6/10 they wont even bother with you. Women only want perfection in a man. Women only go for looks - YouTube Link to post Share on other sites
CptObvious Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zKaxh5kGg44/TnYVZ1EtXII/AAAAAAAAAEI/kQ7iGF2Pk5k/s1600/captain-obvious.jpg Thanks for doing my job. Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 Looks matter, but its not the only thing women care about. Link to post Share on other sites
HeldbyGravity Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 Is that you in the video? I can't hear what you're/he is saying! Ha, if it is you.. just a tip. May want to re-record it. If you can't do it at home, go outside. Go in a car if you have to. That's one Youtuber to another. Some of us find that when a person's personality is really good, we feel more of a physical attraction to them. Likewise, if someone is a mean and nasty person, we label them Ugly. It all depends on how you grew up thinking of people- I guess if your parents often judged them in front of you, you'd do it too. But not everyone does this. For example, I'm sure there are other people here on LS that do this too... Yes, there has to be some sort of attraction that draws us to another person. Don't care if you're male or female, we see something aesthetically pleasing on someone before we approach them- that's WHY we try, it's what draws us in. Then, we try to get a feel for their personality if we are single and looking for someone. Some relationships do Not work out because people jump into the physical part (ever heard some girl say "He is sex"?) and forget to nurture an emotional relationship, but they find out they cannot stand the attitude of the other person. Did anything really "change" when they had sex? No, because they never really gave the person a shot. They skipped to the endgame, and now they're left wondering why someone would "USE" them that way. It's about respecting yourself and another person enough to get to know them first, THAT will lead to lasting relationships. Girls and guys make the same mistakes in this process. Both sides have those who judge on looks alone... and those who do not. Alrighty. There are also people that go on Personality first. I am one of them. I will get to know someone as a friend, as a person, before I judge the looks. Sure we all automatically take a sweep over the opposite sex's body, but that's only natural. Men do it too, and it's really how much we let that first sweep consume us that matters. Well once I've got the personality down, that person becomes more or less attractive in my eyes, and I find things to focus on that I do indeed find physically appealing. I was not attracted to my first love AT ALL, quite the opposite. I did not pay his looks any heed when he asked me out. I loved that he seemed like a good person, so I gave him a shot. And gradually, I grew attracted to his physical features, once I had formed an emotional bond with him. It's not that I'm always Not Attracted At First. The guy I'm going after now, I could barely speak to him the first time I saw him. It was part attraction and part "I feel connected to him in some way, I've got a good feeling about this". The more I talk to him, the more attracted I become to him ON TOP of that. Haven't you ever met someone who could be a good looking person, if only they smiled and were polite? If only they weren't a bully or a thug? We do NOT just judge based on looks. If we did, we'd all be a sad bunch of old folks in our nursing homes when we were older, as we wouldn't be able to stand our partners- now no longer physically appealing or able, no longer of "use" to us. Or we'd just be alone, as we never gave ourselves the chance to emotionally connect with anyone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
40 Fonzarelli Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I find that in a public setting where cold approach is the norm like a club/bar, then yes looks matter alot. But in social circles or at work/school, they matter much less because your gradually getting to know someone so your personality can attract them instead. This is why I say that cold approach is better for good looking guys. Not to say ugly guys won't get any results but they will have to go through alot more rejection. Link to post Share on other sites
sendme Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 The same could be said for men... I know lots of guys that are ugly as sin and yet they wouldn't even give a girl on their level the time of day... Looks matter in initial attraction, but for the long term I want a combo... I'll take the decent looking guy who will treat me well over the California dime with a six pack who'll cheat on me 15 times in three months... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GirlontheLam Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 I find that in a public setting where cold approach is the norm like a club/bar, then yes looks matter alot. Yes, but you can up your game 10fold by dressing well and being stylish. But in social circles or at work/school, they matter much less because your gradually getting to know someone so your personality can attract them instead. True. Dress nice. Be genuine. Be yourself. You'll be amazed how much better you do. BTW, 40 fonzerelli, are you from the Bay? Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 The problem is, most men see themslves as better looking than they are. Most who think that they are 6/10 are actually a 3. Link to post Share on other sites
Necromancer Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Dude, wtf you have so low and weak voice. Yes, many women go for looks but you look as weak as a hamster. Get stronger voice/confidence. Get a better hairstyle and then you can come back and complain. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Unless it's a vetted social circle introduction, generally attractive looks get a man in the door but there's a lot more to it than looks. Watch the picture threads here on LS for more details. Link to post Share on other sites
Pompom Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Hello You all must admit this is the truth. Weither they are ugly or hot girls fat skinny or average women only go by looks. If you are a 6/10 they wont even bother with you. Women only want perfection in a man. Women only go for looks - YouTube As if men were any different with their hateful BS about fat women, saggy tits, etc. And you know what? The men I had feelings for so far, well, the majority of them didn't strike anyone but me as beautiful. Huge foreheads, huge noses, braces on bad teeth (at age 20), too skinny, too pale, too hairless, bug-eyed, random hair growing from facial moles, then the more handsome ones would have psoriasis, or be short.... Know why? While I do have standards, I can see and appreciate someone's charm and charisma, makes them look 100x better to me, even if no one else sees it. Miraculously though, once my feelings die down, neither do I 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 As if men were any different with their hateful BS about fat women, saggy tits, etc. And you know what? The men I had feelings for so far, well, the majority of them didn't strike anyone but me as beautiful. Huge foreheads, huge noses, braces on bad teeth (at age 20), too skinny, too pale, too hairless, bug-eyed, random hair growing from facial moles, then the more handsome ones would have psoriasis, or be short.... Know why? While I do have standards, I can see and appreciate someone's charm and charisma, makes them look 100x better to me, even if no one else sees it. Miraculously though, once my feelings die down, neither do I True. For men, it's been scientifically proven time and time again that looks is all they care about. Link to post Share on other sites
Pompom Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 This was put to the test once in a documentary whose title may translate to "Garden of people". They had a fat, old and otherwise un-pretty woman pretend to be struggling to drag a piece of luggage up a flight of stairs. A man finally helped her after 45 minutes. Then they had a pretty, skinny, young, blonde chick do the same. 9 seconds. Link to post Share on other sites
Necromancer Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 This was put to the test once in a documentary whose title may translate to "Garden of people". They had a fat, old and otherwise un-pretty woman pretend to be struggling to drag a piece of luggage up a flight of stairs. A man finally helped her after 45 minutes. Then they had a pretty, skinny, young, blonde chick do the same. 9 seconds. People in general help rather attractive person than ugly, its not just men. Really? 90% of the cases women say they go for personality its BS, i have had few female friends who say that, the guy they go for has nothing special going for him personality wise. (coincidence i don´t think so!) You women always want to look better than men (non shallow). Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 This was put to the test once in a documentary whose title may translate to "Garden of people". They had a fat, old and otherwise un-pretty woman pretend to be struggling to drag a piece of luggage up a flight of stairs. A man finally helped her after 45 minutes. Then they had a pretty, skinny, young, blonde chick do the same. 9 seconds. I of course would have helped either one. Chances are a hot chick would see me helping out the old lady and think I was a "nice guy". Link to post Share on other sites
BS76 Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Looks matter, but its not the only thing women care about. This. There's more than a few mega-hot late teen/early 20s women dating much older men out there, and I'm talking 50-60+. Women are principally attracted to status first and foremost. Even Brad Pitt has exclaimed how bad his dating prospects were before he became famous. Yes looks do somewhat matter all things being equal, but women are wired by evolution to be attracted to status the way men are wired to be attracted to women with hallmarks of fertility. Exclusions exist, as do all outliers of a bell curve, but that's not relevant to this discussion. I challenge anyone who disagrees with this statement to first watch Science of Sex Appeal on Netflix before replying. Link to post Share on other sites
Pompom Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 People in general help rather attractive person than ugly, its not just men. Really? 90% of the cases women say they go for personality its BS, i have had few female friends who say that, the guy they go for has nothing special going for him personality wise. (coincidence i don´t think so!) You women always want to look better than men (non shallow). You men always whine about conniving women. I don't go for personality either, I go for how a guy makes me feel when he stands before me. I have seen a lot of handsome guys I would not date because they don't stir anything in me. I have sex with all that moves, but when it's for more, I may refrain from meeting you if I don't like your online pictures, but if I were to run into you IRL, chances are I will feel differently. BS is addressing something that is valid for me. A uniform and/or a gun make a guy 10x more attractive to me than they would be without it. Like, I don't look at 19-year-old boys. Unless they're in IDF fatigues and have an assault rifle slapping their butts at every step. Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Hello You all must admit this is the truth. Weither they are ugly or hot girls fat skinny or average women only go by looks. If you are a 6/10 they wont even bother with you. Women only want perfection in a man. Women only go for looks - YouTube No I don't have to admit this is the truth. Nor do I believe it to be so. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
40 Fonzarelli Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Yes, but you can up your game 10fold by dressing well and being stylish. True. Dress nice. Be genuine. Be yourself. You'll be amazed how much better you do. BTW, 40 fonzerelli, are you from the Bay? Lol no im not but im an E-40 fan 1 Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Women only go for looks Absolutely true! Good looking men shouldn't even speak or think, in order to avoid frown lines. Don't be worrying your pretty big head over anything. Women will take care of you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Hello You all must admit this is the truth. Weither they are ugly or hot girls fat skinny or average women only go by looks. If you are a 6/10 they wont even bother with you. Women only want perfection in a man. Women only go for looks - YouTube It seems you go by looks too if you are to say hot ugly skinny fat you are labelling...not all women do go by looks alone.....some women want a package not the only the wrapper...i have found men before who i thought were not attractive for an inexplicable reason that i cant explain become more attractive to me over time when i go deeper.......into who they are....ii notice things i dont at first sight....so i dont know if all women get this thing that happens.....but i dont date guys because of their looks they have to have something more.......under that skin they are in....and i have dated good looking guys i think they are all good looking the ones i have dated....whether others think that i dont give a flying stuff...i like them...i find them attractive...thats all that matters.....deb Link to post Share on other sites
Eve Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 .. Well a nice bottom is quite catching. Can't argue with a nice bottom. Take care, Eve x Link to post Share on other sites
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