mrclean1979 Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Hi my name is Franky and lately i have been very much attractive to large females, but i dont know why? My friends are making of me calling me name and stuff, it get to me to much that i cry at nights. But other people say i sould not date females who are 200-300 pounds, is that wrong? Link to post Share on other sites
Haunani Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 in today's society people tend to look at slim = healthy but nothing is wrong at all for wanting to date a larger woman. They are after all human people with feelings just like everyone else............. I'd tell your friends to go take a hike. Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 I could understand your friends' confusion, but I don't believe it is correct for them to make fun of you. I have to admit, I'm curious as to why some people are attracted to persons who are in an unhealthy physical state. Then again, I'm certain that there are certain aspects of me which come across as strange. People are people, and people shall do what people shall choose to do. I can question it, but making fun of it, or saying it is wrong, is not something I feel is right to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Taken_Angel Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 Poor PATHETIC people who think people who are overweight are ALL unhealthy! I've read a couple of posts about this and it just gets under my skin!!! I am not heavy but some of my family are and they have all been checked, go to the doctor regularly and NONE of them have co-morbities! No reason to be concerned except for "vanity" issues! Which certain people make it painful for heavy people to go in public or to feel good about themselves but luckily SOME of society is starting to wake up and realize you don't need to be 90 pounds to be cute! I say love you who you want, date who you want and don't listen to anyone else because you are the one who is with the person not them. Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted July 29, 2004 Share Posted July 29, 2004 If your friends do that to you, then they aren't true friends. The place I used to work with, two of my co-workers married each other. He was 140 lbs, and she was around 300. And they are as happy as can be. Link to post Share on other sites
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