dumbass101 Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Hi everyone, I'm considering revenge on my ex and would like your opinions. I know people will say 'move on' and get over her but every day brings back memories and revelations about her behaviour. A quick background to this is that we were together 4 years. She was discovered cheating on me and after we split she acknowledged she was cheating throughout but didn't say who with etc. Where also was a visa hunter so thank god we didn't get married thanks to my ex slowing the divorce process down. Anyway, I'm very angry with how she treated me and I have the perfect revenge but she will get fired from her job. I would need to do this anonymously as she would make false allegations about me in return. The question is do you think her hurtful and vile behaviour deserves to be punished in this way? Thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
WhatYouWantToHear Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 Dear internet, I need moral guidance. Plus whats the point of screwing her over if your just going to wuss out and do it anonymously. Its a loser thing to do in a loser way. Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted October 12, 2012 Share Posted October 12, 2012 (edited) Hi everyone, I'm considering revenge on my ex and would like your opinions. I know people will say 'move on' and get over her but every day brings back memories and revelations about her behaviour. A quick background to this is that we were together 4 years. She was discovered cheating on me and after we split she acknowledged she was cheating throughout but didn't say who with etc. Where also was a visa hunter so thank god we didn't get married thanks to my ex slowing the divorce process down. Anyway, I'm very angry with how she treated me and I have the perfect revenge but she will get fired from her job. I would need to do this anonymously as she would make false allegations about me in return. The question is do you think her hurtful and vile behaviour deserves to be punished in this way? Thanks in advance. You were married and cheating on your wife with the girl for 4 yrs. Do you think it is the right thing if your wife makes you fired as well? Do you think your hurtful and vile behaviour deserves to be punished in this way? I guess you had some reasons to cheat on your wife. Most men would say that their wives were terrible, ugly, crazy and did not want to have sex with them. You believe that your reasons to cheat on/divorce your wife are legitamate. But, your wife might think differently and she wants a revenge. The same thing about the girl. She had some reasons to cheat on you. You were wrong for her but she did not know other options to survive/handle her life. No one is perfect and even you are not perfect. If you want your wife to forgive you, you might want to forgive the poor girl who was in the same situation as you were with your wife. Edited October 12, 2012 by bac Link to post Share on other sites
loveunlimited Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 dumbass is as dumbass does. Liewtennunt Dan...... Link to post Share on other sites
Author dumbass101 Posted October 13, 2012 Author Share Posted October 13, 2012 Haha...very funny hearing your replies. I should have added more detail so appologies. She stole hundreds of controlled medications and I have some of the sachets. She also befriended lonely elderly people with money and sold expensive jewellry they gave her and sent the money home to her country...there's lots more vile deeds that I discovered! Getting the picture now?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dumbass101 Posted October 13, 2012 Author Share Posted October 13, 2012 You were married and cheating on your wife with the girl for 4 yrs. Do you think it is the right thing if your wife makes you fired as well? Do you think your hurtful and vile behaviour deserves to be punished in this way? I guess you had some reasons to cheat on your wife. Most men would say that their wives were terrible, ugly, crazy and did not want to have sex with them. You believe that your reasons to cheat on/divorce your wife are legitamate. But, your wife might think differently and she wants a revenge. The same thing about the girl. She had some reasons to cheat on you. You were wrong for her but she did not know other options to survive/handle her life. No one is perfect and even you are not perfect. If you want your wife to forgive you, you might want to forgive the poor girl who was in the same situation as you were with your wife. I never cheated on my wife!!! what leads to to asume I did. I met the vile ex 10 months post separation. Is this a man hating coven I'm dealing with here? What planet are you on?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dumbass101 Posted October 13, 2012 Author Share Posted October 13, 2012 You were married and cheating on your wife with the girl for 4 yrs. Do you think it is the right thing if your wife makes you fired as well? Do you think your hurtful and vile behaviour deserves to be punished in this way? I guess you had some reasons to cheat on your wife. Most men would say that their wives were terrible, ugly, crazy and did not want to have sex with them. You believe that your reasons to cheat on/divorce your wife are legitamate. But, your wife might think differently and she wants a revenge. The same thing about the girl. She had some reasons to cheat on you. You were wrong for her but she did not know other options to survive/handle her life. No one is perfect and even you are not perfect. If you want your wife to forgive you, you might want to forgive the poor girl who was in the same situation as you were with your wife. In fact...may I ask if you are on drugs??? Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 Haha...very funny hearing your replies. I should have added more detail so appologies. She stole hundreds of controlled medications and I have some of the sachets. She also befriended lonely elderly people with money and sold expensive jewellry they gave her and sent the money home to her country...there's lots more vile deeds that I discovered! Getting the picture now?? why don't you turn her into the po-po then if she is swindling old people out of their $. it's like a dateline story. poor old people you won me over with that part, so i vote YES do it! Link to post Share on other sites
Tiera D Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 usually i wont stoop so low but at this situation hell yeah, she needs visa right?without a job could she be deported back? just a suggestion TD Link to post Share on other sites
loveunlimited Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Haha...very funny hearing your replies. I should have added more detail so appologies. She stole hundreds of controlled medications and I have some of the sachets. She also befriended lonely elderly people with money and sold expensive jewellry they gave her and sent the money home to her country...there's lots more vile deeds that I discovered! Getting the picture now?? There's 'revenge' and doing the right thing. The two are completely separate issues. Doing the right thing isn't necessarily 'revenge' although it might feel good. Revenge isn't doing the right thing, when couched in the terms you put it in, within your first post. This is why it's best to give pertinent details. Then you don't sound such a dumbass after all. Do you? Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Haha...very funny hearing your replies. I should have added more detail so appologies. She stole hundreds of controlled medications and I have some of the sachets. She also befriended lonely elderly people with money and sold expensive jewellry they gave her and sent the money home to her country...there's lots more vile deeds that I discovered! Getting the picture now?? That sounds like her life situation was very bad. What are names of the medications you are talkng about? Viagra? Why do you need the medications?))) Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I never cheated on my wife!!! what leads to to asume I did. I met the vile ex 10 months post separation. Is this a man hating coven I'm dealing with here? What planet are you on?? You have said that you were living in the USA. You also said that you have had a R with the girl for 4 yrs. Therefore, you have been separated for about 5 yrs. It is unusual for the USA because a typical man/woman has the problem solved after 1-2 yrs of the separation. Link to post Share on other sites
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