LovesickAlberta Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 Hello, I am new to the forum. Recently (about two months ago), I started a new job. We had a female team lead. Almost immediately, I developed feelings for her. She was intelligent, humble, and chatted openly with everyone, despite her position. She also has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen in my life. She has this ability to make me feel great and smile. I am drawn in by her. I work 3 week on, one week off. I only worked one shift with her. There were some problems at work, and she no showed for almost an entire week. It was highly unusual, since she had put so much time and effort into the company, and she had just bought a house closer to work. I had been thinking about her so much that when I received news that she was not answering her calls from work, or returning messages for days, I was devastated. I feared the worst, as she had just moved out of her folks home, and was stressed out at work. I actually messaged her on fb, stating that people at the office were worried about her, and to just let me know if she was ok. A couple of days afterwards, she agreed to return to work for two weeks, to help in the transition, as she is quitting. I am wondering if my message may have made her feel guilt, or perhaps reconsider. My coworker thought it was weird, since I only worked with her for 3 weeks, and only talked with her a few times. Another friend sees no problem with it. Did I do the right thing? Will it be awkward when she comes back to work, and I have not made my feelings known. The last time I was infatuated with a woman was four years ago, and I feel so great working with her. I cannot bear to wait four more years to feel this way. What should I do? Should I tell her before she leaves that I have feelings for her, or would that creep her out. Feel free to give advice. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
kae Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 this is classic. Link to post Share on other sites
kae Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 she probably alreafy has someone. People who fall off the face of the planet do so because.. home life is so sweet they prefer to stay in OR she`s having problems and is set on working it out. I feel that you should keep your cool. Women are attracted to men who are calm and steady not ... at least not me. Be mysterious and stable.. draw her in. if not she will treat you like a manchild. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LovesickAlberta Posted October 28, 2012 Author Share Posted October 28, 2012 Well my coworker is not coming back. I obviously did not tell her how I felt, as that would have made her feel uncomfortable if she had come back. There is no point in contacting her now that she quit the company. This really sucks. The first time in 4 years I have been infatuated with a woman, and I may never see her again. I am a little depressed over the whole thing, but I will recover soon. Love stinks! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LovesickAlberta Posted November 5, 2012 Author Share Posted November 5, 2012 (edited) Damm. Can't get her out of my mind. I feel like the Doobie Brothers made a song about me: Edited November 5, 2012 by LovesickAlberta Link to post Share on other sites
Author LovesickAlberta Posted October 28, 2013 Author Share Posted October 28, 2013 she probably alreafy has someone. People who fall off the face of the planet do so because.. home life is so sweet they prefer to stay in OR she`s having problems and is set on working it out. UPDATE: Well it turns out she had a secret man, and she seems happy taking the time off. She was completely burned out when I knew her, and I found out the company was largely responsible for underpaying, and under-appreciating her, as she was the glue that held the fort together. I'm just happy she is doing well. PS....I still can't believe I fell for someone in that short period of time. That is a new personal record. Link to post Share on other sites
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