One 'dumpers' point of view

[songbird70]

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Originally Posted by kae

and that mouth is why he left you...

 

maybe so...YES I GOT A MOUTH LIKE YOU...LOL...but remember...I WAS THE DUMPER!!!...LOL

 

 

yes but you reach out to him... and he didnt bite.

you also miss him.. and he`s not fishing..

 

so.. does it matter who dumped who??

the real question whom wants who???????

 

 

 

I guess we will never know...or maybe we WILL..lmao...this story has not ended if you look at it objectively! at least it did not end with no one caring and having ISSUES like you did I guess....LOL

[kae]

well.. i agree with you..

 

but since she put out fast.. anyone can make that assumption.. and yes it is an assumption but that level of intimacy in a short amount of time erodes trust rather than build it.

 

all i want to say is... its over and its A GOOD thing.. trust me. He just broke up with someone .. he probably thinks of her often.. do you really want to be around that??? He has his own wounds and he might need space to cry.. like really think about it..

 

too.. you are tide to that situation he probably wants to erase anything related to it.. it was bad timing.. it happens

[kae]

im sorry..you dont make sense to me. im out

[songbird70]

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Originally Posted by kae

Originally Posted by kae http://www.loveshack.org/forums/imag...s/viewpost.gif

He probably need to have sex with someone else for his feelings for you to really surface.

 

 

What bollocks!

 

Some people dont know they have feelings until something goes wrong.. im like that.. so.. i find a lot of my guy friends are too..

 

 

Now that is different! Shaggin anything that may possibly move is not how you discover it though.

 

 

yes but she is shagging anything .. he shagging anything... that makes things a million times harder.

 

WOW...why don't you READ first before you post???? NO ONE SAID ANYTHING about shagging different people. I NEVER shagged anyond, and HE said he only shagged one!!!! go to sleep mz thang!!!...lol. read again tomorrow THEN post...lol

[songbird70]

im sorry..you dont make sense to me. im out

 

 

and YOU make absolutely NOOOOOOOOOOOOO SENSE to me...please don't post again...lol. not gonna miss a damn thing you have to say. again...this original post was about dumpers being remorseful and sorry. did not expect to be annihilated by this,,,wow...lol

[kae]

wait..

 

 

 

 

im glad u brought up my situation. what your going through i went through.. expect i didnt know i was a rebound. and yes we a zzzillion unborn babies.. he really was lovely and we really did want US.. but the too soon sex plagued us and when i was freaking out that i went to my family for three weeks he assumed i was a trashy loose codepedent hoebag... he sought revenge because he thought i abandonned him and he stapped ALL OVER..

 

so too soon sex... makes for horrible relationships... my lesson.

 

that`s why im telling you to be grateful.. because ive been there

[kae]

with pleasure..

[kae]

p.s that was a 2 months in sex, two years total relationship so thats the big picture

[songbird70]

wait..

 

 

 

 

im glad u brought up my situation. what your going through i went through.. expect i didnt know i was a rebound. and yes we a zzzillion unborn babies.. he really was lovely and we really did want US.. but the too soon sex plagued us and when i was freaking out that i went to my family for three weeks he assumed i was a trashy loose codepedent hoebag... he sought revenge because he thought i abandonned him and he stapped ALL OVER..

 

so too soon sex... makes for horrible relationships... my lesson.

 

that`s why im telling you to be grateful.. because ive been there

 

 

thank you for sharing your story besides coming at me... :-) One day I will tell you everything, BUT...my situation was not like yours at all...trust me.