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Does she want more than friendship?


sosoblak

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Several years ago I met an amazing woman at my brother's best friends' birthday party. We hit it off and continued for many years to remain friends. A few years ago she left Chicago and moved home to Indianapolis. Its 3 hours away and I go there often to visit my immediate family and we hangout.

 

She's come back to Chicago several times to visit me and lately has been staying at my house when she comes. Couple years ago we went to a New Years Eve party and got pretty drunk. Thats the only time we almost went beyond friendship, but her girfriend came up with her and I did not overnight at their hotel. Last year we went to the Sade concert together and hungout with friends had a ball.

 

She's coming again this weekend and I'm very curious if these visits are invitations to get closer or if this is just a really good friendship. I appreciate her and love her. She's an awesome friend and gives good advice.

 

She's attractive in her late 30's no kids never married. I'm 40 divorced and have 3 children nearly adults. Is her clock ticking? Does she just want a fun romp? or maybe we'll just have a good platonic time and that be it.

 

What should I be getting from this? Am I naive and cant see when someone is showing interest? Most of the time I cannot.

 

Help.

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