Wake38 Posted October 18, 2012 Share Posted October 18, 2012 Hi, first of all I'm Belgian and there for my English is basic. Last summer i got in touch with a Oekraine girl from Odessa at my waterski club. I noticed her before, but did not give her any attention because, she's only 20 years old and also well you know the ice queen look... I'm a sportive guy in good shape and have no problem on picking up girls in my home town. I teached her wakeboarding, my summer job. To make a long story short, she showed interest in me and i dated her for 10 days. She even called her mom to tell her she liked me and i was 18 years older, mother was shocked because her mom is 40. She was in Belgium for two months, but i only got to know her the last 10 days of her visit. We dated, kissed and had sex the last weekend two times. She is by far the most beautiful girl i ever had. I dropped her off at the airport and i kept strong and let her go. First thing she did when she arrived in Odessa was Imessage me, and it went on for 6 weeks. In Belgium she told me her boyfriend broke up with her because he was jealous, and not pleased that she came to Belgium for two months. She told her boyfriend about our little romance and we had sex. Boyfriend shouted at her that she acts like a Russian slut. All this she told me honestly.One week ago the message stopped and i got suspicious. Ex boyfriend is trying really hard to get her back with lots of flowers, i saw some pictures on Instagram, that she met him again. All this she told me honestly. 4 weeks ago, i told her i booked a ticket to Odessa, and stay there for 10 days, only for her. All was good then, we messaged each other to sleep. She's been honest all the way except for one thing. One week ago she messaged me it was not a good idea to visit her in Odessa because she is VERY BUSY WITH HER STUDY! Few is true but i think there is more going on. I told her that im not a fool and that i know whats going on. She told me she understood and still come to pick me up at the airport and we walk together. I found out that her 'ex'boyfriend lives in Kiev, a 5 hour drive. I also know she is going to take practice cource in Spain for two months, and that she would like to be invited again to Belgium in July and August next summer. I'm going to Odessa for sure, but i dont know whats going to happen there. I started searching the web, and i came up with all the marriage dating sites, sex tourist stuff and all. If anyone could give me some advice please let me know. Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted October 19, 2012 Share Posted October 19, 2012 Wake38, She may be "the most beautiful girl you've ever had," but you're twice her age. Therefore, don't expect her to act like she's your peer. She's not. And by the time she is, you'll be 60 years old. Think about it. You spent 10 days with this girl. You are not in a relationship even if you did have sex. You had a holiday fling with a student. If I were you, I'd cancel my trip to Odessa and spend your time and money on someone who is "available" -- meaning someone who's closer to you in age, location, stage in life, and not bouncing back and forth between an ex "and the new guy." Surely there's at least one woman in Belgium that fits that criteria. Go find her and leave the girl you're infatuated with alone. Best, TMichaels 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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