doublediddy Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 yeah, more trouble. She slept with several people in a small group of her friends and they all still hang around. She's still friends with the group and will likely want to hang out with these people the rest of her life. I don't know if I really want to deal with that. She doesn't have any feelings for these guys, but everyone in the group knows about all of this. Most of this happened over 10 years ago, but one was right before I met her. I have a past too, but it is a past and nothing she'll have to deal with, definitely not like this. I can't explain my feelings, but I definitely don't like it. Is this normal on her part or on mine? Thoughts or advice? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 She needs to stop living in the past & move on with the future. If she chooses them over you, then I would tell her to leave. This along w/ the wedding part, is not right. She needs to decide what is more important in her life. Tell her it really bothers you and you two would like to meet new friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted August 1, 2004 Share Posted August 1, 2004 Some people would be cool with it....many others, such as yourself, would not. It's quite normal to feel uncomfortable, and she should respect that. Feelings of jealousy, being threatened somehow, or even just feeling plain awkward knowing these other girls were with your girl is quite human and natural. Like I said, it would not bother some people, but as it bothers you, she should respect that. To be honest, it would bother me. Link to post Share on other sites
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