daphne Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 Rep, i think you don't want to set healthy boundaries for yourself, which is why you aren't taking issue with him and letting him turn it around on you. You need to take care of yourself. My current bf's ex fits the description of borderline as well. In my situation, my bf can't ex communicate the ex because they have kids. However, I set my boundaries and explained to him that when he continues to respond to her endless tirades and nasty multiple messages, he's still tied to her in a negative spiral. I can't sit by and watch the drama. It's abusive and confusing to me. From the things I"ve heard others that have been in this predicament, the damage that a borderline doles out is not worth being in the relationship. I can't imagine one good reason for him remaining friends with her at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author reptilelover88 Posted January 6, 2013 Author Share Posted January 6, 2013 So we managed to sort out the situation with the bill. He has agreed to stop paying it and she is visiting next week to collect her belongings and end the storage arrangement. But now I am upset because he just told me that he's going to be meeting her at the airport! He can't really afford this and there will be someone else there to meet her anyway (the friend she is staying with). I said that I feel like this is more of a romantic thing to do and I am not comfortable with it. He got really annoyed with me. Am I being unreasonable? Link to post Share on other sites
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