lovingu Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 Hi . This is my first post here. I have a very big crush on this guy from my class.We don't know each other that much. I know i am so into him.I love him so much. But,I am really sad, and i even cry that i can't see him anymore coz the class will finish on august 9th. I love him so muchhh and i wanna let him know that how special he is to me. I think about him all the time.At least, i wanna be his close friend!That's all I want. What should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 Oh my. You *cry* because the class is going to be over.... Are you sure this is a healthy crush and not an obsession? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingu Posted July 30, 2004 Author Share Posted July 30, 2004 coz i can't see him anymore! Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 Okaaaaay. I know that's why you were crying. It just sounds a little weird. How old are you? Did you grow up in a two-parent household? Why are you "in love" with this guy? Do you think he likes you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingu Posted July 30, 2004 Author Share Posted July 30, 2004 i don't know if he likes me or not. We sometimes study together and that's it. I love him so much. I just can't get him out of my mind! Give me some advice plzz.. Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 Give him a kiss on the lips. Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 Originally posted by lovingu i don't know if he likes me or not. We sometimes study together and that's it. I love him so much. I just can't get him out of my mind! Give me some advice plzz.. How old are you! Link to post Share on other sites
pitprincess Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 Originally posted by Dork Give him a kiss on the lips. That should start something Link to post Share on other sites
Gemini02 Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 In all seriousness, if you can't bring yourself to just go up to talk to him then you really should forget it. I know how it is, it's only been a year since I was in school and having the crushes that you're experiencing. I can gaurentee that you are not "in love" with this boy, because you "don't know each other that much." To be in real true love you have to know the person- real true love is based on time spent getting to know the person inside, not just what's on the outside. You will move on, trust me. There will be other boys, other crushes... Crushes are supposed to be fun! Believe me I spent many nights crying into my pillow too because the boy I liked didn't even know I existed!! Then I realized it wasn't worth it because eventually there will be boys (and one day men) who are actually worth the attention because (hopefully) they will be a bit more mature. So unless you suck it up and ask him if he wants to go get a soda or something after class one day, don't spend you're time crying girl! it's not worth your tears! Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 I have a very big crush on this guy from my class.We don't know each other that much. I know i am so into him.I love him so much. You don't love him, you don't know him well enough to love him:(. You have a crush, which just about everyone gets when they're young. If you really do like him, talk to him and see if you can maybe hang out after the class ends. Don't cry over him though, like Gemini said, it's not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
birdstealingbread Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 Like other posters said...you're not in love with him! It might feel that way, but I don't think you can really *love* someone without knowing them better. Still, this does sound like a very strong crush. So...if you feel so strongly about this guy, ask him to hang out. Maybe go to a movie or a concert. Make it sound like you're going anyway. DON'T pour your heart out - I know this might be tempting, but it will probably scare him off if he isn't equally infatuated with you! If he says no, that doesn't necessarily mean a total rejection. He might be busy or suggest getting together another time. Try getting his contact info so you can keep in touch with him after your class ends, and perhaps try again later. If he accepts, it'll give you a chance to spend time with him away from school - see how he acts, explore common interests, etc. You might even decide you don't really like him! But hanging out is a good place to start. All the *successful* relationships I've seen started when the guy and girl were friends first. Either way, don't cry! You're young and even if things don't work out with this guy, there will be plenty more. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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