Moparman Posted October 23, 2012 Share Posted October 23, 2012 WARNING, this is a book. I just want the best answer possible. My first post so here is a little history, I'm 21, I live a very independent life, Graduated college, i have a full time job doing what i love and about to go back to school for an engineering degree. I live with 2 roommates (very nice apartment, cheapER rent ) Ive got a street bike I'm building to race next year, and I'm building fast car just to do it. I love to travel, i went to Alaska by myself last year to do some snowboarding, and hoping to go to the Rockies to tear up the slopes this year. I love to have fun, throw a lot of parties, and love to do whatever is different. And now that your bored... I have no luck with the ladies, But that's slowly changing. SLOWLY I just want some advice, I've been hanging out with my roommates sister's roommate (say that 3 times haha) But we met at a party i was throwing, she is 23 and she is a mechanic for Volkswagen . She is fun, and me and her have the same views on a lot of stuff. I didn't really talk to her much at first, but the second or third party i had we hit it off pretty good. but now everyone else started budding their nose into this situation. Everyone was saying she just wanted to have sex with me, and my roommate said she just got out of a relationship, and she would never date a younger guy. (They $h!t on my confidence) She slept in my bed we cuddled and whatnot but i didn't want to have sex with her because i genuinely liked her and wanted to win her over... not be her crutch. Well i got her number, she came to more parties, and a group of all our roommates always go and do stuff together. This has been going on for awhile, sleeping over like twice a week. BUT! me and her have never actually went on a date just me and her, we never kissed, but i've hugged her and held on to her in lines and whatnot, we held hands for a little while and we hug when we part our ways. Every time we plan something either my or her roommates mess it up, always budding in, always around, like we have no privacy, except my bedroom at the end of a long night, which always seemed cheesy to make a move to me. Well i really like this girl. And i could tell her interest was high, and i was trying to get her out alone, but i never happened and now I'm pretty sure she is losing interest... I can tell, she still wants to hang out, but she doesn't stay over nearly as much. I don't text or call her all the time (usually call unless I'm at work) i don't annoy her. Ill let her go for a couple days and then invite her over for something to do, and she still almost always comes over. At this point, i just don't know what to do, she is also very independent, and she always seemed interested, but never made it obvious like most girls Ive flirted around with. And now it feel like i fell into the friend zone... Part of me wants to just get her alone in my room, or in a park in the city and just hold her and plant a kiss on her and see what happens. But the other half just wants to pull her aside and tell her how it is. That i did genuinely like her, but had troubles showing it. And if she liked it yay (probably not) and if she didn't feel the same anymore that's cool to, ill just leave it where it stands and call it a day and move on.... Did i shoot myself in the foot or what? It was a crazy time to meet, as we both have hectic lives. And we were both really busy. I just never had a chance (alone with her) to really make my move the way i wanted to. :(When I'm not really interested in a girl, its EASY, when i like them its hard. I always thought i played it cool, not being needy, and not giving into all their whims, while being a gentlemen, and making every move but a kiss sofar... Thanks if you made it this far Link to post Share on other sites
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