adelynn Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I am In a long distance relationship. We've been together on and off for 4 years, but lately this last year has been really good. We live three hours apart from one another, but due to his schedule, he only gets four days off of work every two weeks. He has no education past high school and is not willing to go back to school which limits his job opportunities. He currently makes good money and is high up in the company he works for. I am ready to settle down in life and would like to move in together. He says he would like the same thing, but is not willing to move because of his job. He works for an oil company and there is no oilfield business in the city I live in. The occupation I work in is not offered where he lives either. He does come to stay at my house on his days off, but I do not find that four days is enough for me. Is this relationship worth my time? Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Chrissy Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 If you are able to ask a question "Is this relationship worth my time" right after you said, you have been with this guy for 4 years and you talk about moving in with him and that 4 days isn't enough for you, should you really be in the relationship? To me, if you are able to break of a relationship because you reasoning, then you shouldn't be with the guy. Thats what I think. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author adelynn Posted October 24, 2012 Author Share Posted October 24, 2012 Thanks for the reply. I think I'm going to take your advice and try a trial version of commuting to work since my days are not nearly as long as his. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 The occupation I work in is not offered where he lives either. Which is? What cities are you talking about? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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