Radiohead121 Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 Hello Everyone.. I am looking for an unbiased opinion. And I need help desperately... I was in a relationship with this guy for 1 year and 8 months, i can say our relationship was perfect but he has this attitude that everytime we fight or have a misunderstanding, he will contact other girls use them as a 'safety net'. It seems like he's so insecure and always wants assurance from someone. Until one day, i was tired from all the texting and flirting that i decided to take a break from the relationship. For me that 2 weeks break atime to think things over but it wasnt long enough that i found out the started dating... I confronted him but he denied and he said he wants me back. So we tried working the relationship for month but i know in my heart that its not the same anymore. He has changed and i know that theyre still dating (with the other woman). So i confronted him and hesaid he was confused. So i choose to let him go for good because i know he is a changed person and somehow he's attached to the other woman. After the night that we broke up until recently he's trying to win me back. But HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT GIRL ALREADY... I started dating another guy but it didnt worked out, i somehow felt lonely then our friendshipn started again... I dont know if it was unresolved feelings but we started seeing each other secretly... The iloveyou's and imissyou's are back and he said to give him time to break things off to the girl he's with right now.. Months passed by but still he hasnt confronted the girl. I was mad and furious coz he has been telling me all these beautiful words like: 'eventhough im with her, i feel empty and forever be lonely...' 'iloveyou soo much, i fix everything.' 'help me get out of this mess and ill give you the perfect relationship.' 'just give me few more days to fix this..' but still he's doing the exact opposite... He's STILL in a relationship with girl, and still visit and sleep at the GF's house which hurt my feelings.. So i decided to talk to the girl and told her everything.... Now, the guys seems more confuse than ever! Behind my back he's been texting the other woman and asking her to fight for her, telling her iloveyou and stay with me... I know its clear that is should let him go but i know him too well that this is just part of his confusion... He's been telling me that 'since you claim that you know me, so you know where i stand...' I love him, i cant deny that and im still holding on to him and everyday it hurts... I Just cant believe what happen... During the time that he was trying to win me back after our break up i felt in my heart that he really wants to be with me and know after i THINK i fixed everything, his mind changed... And everytime, i try to move on he sends me this text messages with a little hint of assurance. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HIM? I was once the girlfriend and i know i felt like the other woman... H E L P ? Link to post Share on other sites
Solcita2 Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 Why are you still with him when things are not "as they used to be"? What's the poing? I think the biggest question is WHY DO YOU DO THIS TO YOURSELF? Link to post Share on other sites
alexandria35 Posted October 27, 2012 Share Posted October 27, 2012 WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HIM? Oh there is a lot wrong with him, but that's not really your biggest problem no should it be the most pressing question on your mind. You're the one who accepts this and just keeps hanging onto him while he lies and jerks everyone around. Why? Why are you doing this to yourself? You can't change him or fix him. Work on yourself. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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