samson88 Posted August 1, 2004 Share Posted August 1, 2004 my wife and i have been seperated for about six months with some comunication. we talked on the phone on thursday night and decided to get together on friday and talk about some things that would bring us back together. we decided that we would go back to the councelor, and that we should write down a few things that we both really want seperately and together. things really went great. at dinner she told me that she was going out of town to spend the weekend with her friends from highschool. it made me a little nervouse to say the least but i know that i have to trust her and she has to trust me. we went to dinner and then we spent the night together. the next day we talked on the phone off and on while she drove to her friends place. when she got thier she called me and told me that she was safe and she would give me a call before she went to bed. she called me about 7:00pm and told me that she was calling to say that she loved me very much and that they were going to sit around and talk for a while and then going to go to sleep and that she was going to shut her phone off. i told her that i loved her too. i tried to call her right back to make sure that she was going to call when she went to bed and she didn't answer, so i called the friends house and talked to her and she said that she would call. i couldn't sleep very well and there was no call by midnight. i showed my desperation and called the house again at midnight. when the person answered i asked for her and she said that all of the adults went out for the night. i don't know what to do?? Link to post Share on other sites
Pained Posted August 1, 2004 Share Posted August 1, 2004 You need to back off and let your wife have some space. You're separated, yet you've both shown interest in getting back together and are willing to see a counselor together. At this point you need to work on your own trust issues. If you keep calling, you'll likely irritate her and/or drive her away. Link to post Share on other sites
dudesomewhere Posted August 1, 2004 Share Posted August 1, 2004 "when the person answered i asked for her and she said that all of the adults went out for the night." well, since they didn't go to sleep like she said...your call from there right? For me I don't need too many wake up calls...just 1 or 2 and I'm out!!!!! hehe so, trust issues aside...I wouldn't trust someone who said something other than the truth...how about you guys? Link to post Share on other sites
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