Help is on the way!

[yogurtu]

How about starting a 12-step program for OWs/OMs/MMs/MWs? Is there anything already in place? Would anyone want to take part of this effort? Why or why not?

[saintfrancis]

I would not. 12-step implies addiction. Having an affair is NOT an addiction, I don't care what anyone says. It's a choice. Period.

[Samson]

John???????

 

Anything to get elected, eh?

[kiababy]

saintfrancis I would not. 12-step implies addiction. Having an affair is NOT an addiction, I don't care what anyone says. It's a choice. Period.

 

Have you been in this situation yourself? If not then you don't know what you're talking about - if you have, please read the 'Love Addiction' symptoms:

http://mysticcat.angelcities.com/reladdict.html

[fanou22]

I would take part in that if it helps.

I might know all 12 steps to get over MM but I could think of a few.

 

Be sure that this what you want to do and not what you have to do (breaking it off)

 

Now this part is different for different people:

Don't explain anything simply ignore him

or You can explain what you are feeling and why you want out then ignore any contact attempts.

 

Finally, look at yourself in the mirror at least 3 times a day and tell yourself "I am an amazing person and I deserve better" ............(something to smile)

 

And always remember: when there is a will there is a way.

[littleflowerpot]

Originally posted by kiababy

Have you been in this situation yourself? If not then you don't know what you're talking about - if you have, please read the 'Love Addiction' symptoms:

http://mysticcat.angelcities.com/reladdict.html

 

what do you expect from someone that calls himself "saint francis"?