My Filipino girlfriend said she don't want me because i am Indian---Need ?

[santoshsharma]

Hello Everyone,

I am Santosh from India. 2 years ago i met one Filipino girl on Facebook. She is so pretty i have met. Feb 2011 to Dec. 2011 everything was fine. I met her when i was studying in the last year. I gave her my each and every details about me and my family. At first time i told her i am Indian guy from Middle Class family and I need time to go in Philippines. That time she was so good to me. She listened my every problem and asked me to save money for travelling. January 2012 She text me and asked me for a breakup. I was so shocked bcoz i didn't know anything why she want breakup with me, and honestly i am deeply involve in her. I begging her, I cry for her, I keep calling her but she didnt listen my any word. i keep trying to get her back until 8 months. After a many ups and down last week she said she love me and she want me. i was so happy and i thought now everything will be good, but it was just a dream. i said i will come to Philippines soon maybe this feb. bcoz i don't want lose you again. everything goes well but before 4 days she suddenly changed and asked me for a breakup. and i don't know why?. i asked for a reason then she told me i am not able for her. i am travel by bus in the India, i don't have car and many more. she compare me to her friends. how she's friends is rich and how many guys asked for a marriage. i get hurt, i beg her to don't leave me. whatever she want i will give her. whatever i have its true and i don't hide anything from her. few minutes ago i called her again then she said she don't want me anymore, she don't care if i cry, if i die. she don't care if i love her. now i don't understand what i do now? i get hurt very badly. i am 24 years old and she is older than me. i am still trying to get her back. every month she asked me to leave her. i am upset and sad. i am in long distance relationship but i love her deeply. i don't know what should i do? I said her i will marry to her. but she used many bad words to me. she insulting me a lot. She said i am stupid, boring and poor guy. i don't know i am stupid or what. please i need good advice guys

Please help.

[Hawaii50]

Phillipino women are notorious, the world over, for chasing money/security. Just sayin'.

 

I know it hurts, buddy, but there isn't much you can do but accept it, and learn whatever lessons there are, move on, and apply them to the next.

[zebracolors]

Hi Santosh:) "The real meaning of love is not to possess."

 

Let her go, is really all I can advise. She's made it clear she no longer wants to be in the LDR with you. And it could be many reasons but they don't matter. I know it may be difficult, but don't wast your time and emotions on this woman anymore.

[mammasita]

Let her go. You can't do anything to change her mind, you can only focus on yourself and move on with your life.

 

Secondly, why would you want to be with, let alone marry someone who insults you like she does?

 

Be strong, she is not the last woman in the world that you will love.

[Sasu]

Find a decent girl buddy & try not through LDR as they generally doesn't work.

You love her,but she doesn't love you same,there is no point in wasting your time anymore .

Focus on your life and ignore her for now ,nice guy like you will get someone better.

[blugirl]

Phillipino women are notorious, the world over, for chasing money/security. Just sayin'.

 

I'll second that. My SO lives in the Philippines and he's told me a lot about the local girls... most of them dream of becoming gold diggers with rich husbands so they can be showered with lots of expensive presents, they are pretty materialistic.

She looks like one of them, and what makes it even more probable is the fact she's older than you - she probably wasn't able to find any decent guy so far that's why she got stuck with you. Also the fact that she called you a 'boring, stupid and poor' guy, with the emphasis on poor. In my opinion, it clearly shows that she's not interested in you but what you could possibly offer her.

Please break all contact with her and won't let her lose your faith in real love and good women out there, you just had bad luck, encountering that woman Good luck for you~

[justwhoiam]

please i need good advice guys

Please help.

I liked all the answers you've been given so far.

You are in love with a face, you got used to her presence in your life, you are probably in love with this woman. But don't let that fool you. You can't commit to someone like her. Your heart would be broken for a very long time making you really unhappy.

 

You need a devoted wife, possibly your age or younger than you. There are things or details you can't decide about the person you'll fall in love with, but you can help yourself find the woman of your dreams. And she is not that woman. So move on, stop contact with her. She might contact you or look for you if she feels lonely or doesn't have it her way with someone else. She might keep you as a backup. Don't be that for her. Don't be the shoulder to cry on, she didn't show the least respect for you. Have some pride and be a man.

 

Start looking around for someone new entering your life.

 

It will be sad at first. You'll miss her. But after a while it'll get better and life will shine again.

[Anne25]

Let go! Its clear that she doesn't really love you. You deserve someone better...

 

I am a filipina and in a LDR with an indian guy for 4 years already.

[allenpo123]

Move on bro, the next girl you love will be happy you did