tiffanyrenee Posted October 31, 2012 Share Posted October 31, 2012 Hello, I am new to this and you wil have to forgive .ny typos because i am using.my phoxne. I am very young to be married. I am only 24. My H is 23. Within this time we have been together for 5 years married foe 2 and have 2 children (1 & 3) and i am 6 months pregnant. I come to this particular forum in seeking help. See, on sept 6 my attitude finally made my husband snap and he left. At rhe time i dat i did but now i do. For years i took advantage of his kindness. Hes such a loyal loving and affectionate person and i became hostile and seemingly unintrested. He has never cheated on me nor i him so that is one thing that automatically needs to be eliminated from thought. I did have trust issues but i dont know why when he never gave me a reason to have them. Anyway, i take responsibimity for the most part on why he left. Being pregnant for the majority of our relationship affected my sex drive and that killed some of it. I take blame for not being a gpod housewife while he allowed me to be a SAHM. He has left l before but came back the next day or a few hours later and he usually goes to his parents house. Which is where he is now staying. But now i am confused. We spent the last 7 weeks bickering to the point he called to price a consoltation with a divorce lawyer which he said he could not afford and if he really wanted a divorce hed put a lean on his truck and do so but he hasnt. He was the one who asked me to find a marriage counselor (which i have and weve been going ffor a month now) but until last week my attitude hasnt changed and thats what he wants. Hes not your typical 23 year old. Hes only had 2 parters before me, regretting them horribly due to circumstances and is not interested in goong to bars or clubs. (He even work for a beer distribution delivering to them) but does like to drink quit a bit (not every day or to the point where hes drunk). He has no friends his age. Men he considers his friends are old enough to be our dad. I always said he was an ild man trappes in a young mans body. Anyway back to the problem. This last week we have been civil and actually dodged a bullet when we could have slept together but didnt. I ask him if he thinks we can make our marriage work and he keeps saying he doesnt know and hes confused. He wont tell me ge loves me when i do but does agree that he does when i ask him. We havent had a fight in a week and i am trying to change and he says he wants to see if i will. Hes tired of me "bitching and complaining" all the time. He is a good man but i am afraid i hurt him too much. Given the vague statement do you think he will return? Link to post Share on other sites
Author tiffanyrenee Posted November 2, 2012 Author Share Posted November 2, 2012 Gee... thanks for the help... Yeah it dont help whn people dont respond on a site for people seeking other peoples opinions. Link to post Share on other sites
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