Boyfriend Not Sent Any Texts Or Called After An Argument??

[Kittyen]

I'm hurting and really confused

 

We have been in a relationship for about 2 months. Sat night was the first time I went on a night out with my bf and his friends - and he got really really drunk, he said some stuff that upset me. He apologised but I was still upset so when he came over later on the weekend I was saying how upset I was and I shouted at him briefly :/. I said sorry he said sorry.

 

He told me he doesn't like people shouting or arguments as his ex did that, we talked but he left saying he felt awkward said he would see me tomorrow (Monday) and to sweep that night under the carpet...he was supposed to come over but didn't I texted saying how sorry I was and that I didn't mean it and that it wouldn't happen again and that I care about him a lot and that I can't stand it that I've hurt him.

 

I have had nothing back today...will he come back to me if I wait? I'm really shocked he didn't come round on Monday. I'm just really anxious, and I know I shouldn't have shouted at him I'm so upset I wish it had never happened. He doesn't normally drink at all, this was a rare occasion. He normally texts me everyday...that's why I'm so worried. He must know that it's hurting me...would he be thinking things over and cooling off?? Rather than the alternative which is what I'm dreading...his is day 3 and no text or call...

 

Some of my friends are saying he is cooling off and will call or text me soon - what does anyone here think??

[StylistC]

Just give him some time to cool off.. sometimes people just need a little space after an argument. I am sure everything will be fine. In a couple of days once he has cooled off and thought things through I am sure you will hear from him and then you can calmly discuss the situation. just hang in there!

[Kittyen]

Thanks for replying... I'm still really scared he will break up with me :/

[StylistC]

Well if your boyfriend is going to break up with you over one stupid argument then really you are better off.. arguments happen. Yelling happens. I wouldn't want to be with someone that gives up so easy. Again, I think he just needs some time.. but if he does break it off over this and this alone then move on.. as much as it hurts to.

[River Rain]

He got drunk and said hurtful things. When you tried to talk about it, it got loud, so what, it happens. Don't beg for forgiveness, you didn't do anything wrong enough for him to ignore you like that. I know the cliché goes that "men need time", but don't be a doormat and wait too long on him, that's not fair to you. Adults don't need to run away and hide when things get a little uncomfortable.

[Kittyen]

Yeh but he had already said sorry I shouldn't have yelled . I wish I could turn back time. I just think I hurt him and it was my fault - I really hope he calls me soon !

[tangled]

I'm waiting for my boyfriend to talk to me after our argument yesterday I now how it feels... He said he wasn't upset, but I know he's hurt...I just want this all to be fixed