Sporty Girl Posted October 31, 2012 Share Posted October 31, 2012 (edited) I have a friend. She is attached. She has been with this guy for almost a year, then when he went away for about three weeks to go to work, she went on Craigslists and posted a harmless friendship ad. Looking for Cool People To Hang Out With. Along with this ad she posted a picture and her hobbies/interestes. She hits about an 8 and a half or 9 on a scale and has a very toned muscular body, and she is very petite like myself. Anyays she got tons of replies, and I mean tons. There was this one guy that she really took a liking to. He was very built, very muscular, like a body builder, she showed me his pic, and damn, yep he is hot. Anyways they started off talking as friends, then slowly she came on to him. She did told me that she told him she wanted to be friends only, and he said yep. Then she started coming on to him, because her problem is her boyfriend is not having sex with her. He wants her to wait till he has a vasectomy, because they had an accident over the summer which resulted in abortion. Now I myself don't agree with abortion, but it's her choice. Anyways the other guy knows that she has a boyfriend, and when she came on to him he flirted back, and they have been doing it since. They BBM each other all day/night, email's, love voice notes, graphic pics. I witness this all happening. She says that she loves the both of them. She talks graphic with him also. They have not met in person yet. She keeps delaying it. But he wants to meet. He is telling her that he is in love with her now. Now she is in a love triangle. This guy just got out of jail too. He was in there for ten years for beating sombody up. That's what he says anyways. He said he beat up some child molester. Ok? I seen some of the messages that they sent each other. He keeps referring to himself as "Daddy", and her as his" lil girl", I think this is very gross. She does looks very young, so I am worried about her a little bit. She did try and dump him a few times, but he get's upset about it. He does have a full time job, but he is on parole, and he is in love with her. I don't know what to tell her when she asks me what she should do. She got herself in this mess. Any advice on how I could help her???? Edited October 31, 2012 by Sporty Girl Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted November 1, 2012 Share Posted November 1, 2012 First, it isn't hard to find out what someone was in jail for. 30 bucks for a public records search. People don't usually go to jail for beating yo child molesters. Period. Tell her..I love you, but this crap is makng you look crazy and I'm not going to be supportive so don't ask me to be. Link to post Share on other sites
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