aMguilts Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 (edited) Please focus on Mid and what he says and not what my advice is, thanks. touche whichwayisup... your right i apologise aM Edited February 8, 2013 by aMguilts Link to post Share on other sites
Author mid-divorce Posted February 13, 2013 Author Share Posted February 13, 2013 Quick update. Things are going great, were spending loads of quality time together, I'm happy, she's happy, the kids are happy. We have a few downs as we both have a lot to get over but on the whole is superb at the min 1 Link to post Share on other sites
zackburnet Posted February 16, 2013 Share Posted February 16, 2013 Your wife should talk to you about the problem, rather than talking to other men. everything is not over yet, there are many other ways to restore your relationship. It seems that you still love your wife, your marriage is not over yet, get adequate counseling from a good counselor. Never file a divorce. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mid-divorce Posted October 21, 2013 Author Share Posted October 21, 2013 Right.... We got back together for 5 months, put an offer on a new house, went on holiday twice, she wanted to try for a new baby Then bang, it's all over again in June. She has since stopped me seeing the kids, I'm taking her to court. She moved a new bloke in, different one n got engaged why we are still married Link to post Share on other sites
RightThere Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 Right.... We got back together for 5 months, put an offer on a new house, went on holiday twice, she wanted to try for a new baby Then bang, it's all over again in June. She has since stopped me seeing the kids, I'm taking her to court. She moved a new bloke in, different one n got engaged why we are still married So what led to the "Bang, it's all over again" part? Sounds like it was really moving forward and then just fell off the rails. Link to post Share on other sites
Porridge Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 Right.... We got back together for 5 months, put an offer on a new house, went on holiday twice, she wanted to try for a new baby Then bang, it's all over again in June. She has since stopped me seeing the kids, I'm taking her to court. She moved a new bloke in, different one n got engaged why we are still married Admittedly I've only just seen this thread and it'd take me ages to go through it, so apologies if already discussed - but does your wife have some sort of psychological issue? The sudden change of outlook, the drastic actions, the need to find someone else, cutting you off from the kids - it comes across as someone who has genuine issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mid-divorce Posted October 22, 2013 Author Share Posted October 22, 2013 I honestly don't know if she has some mental issues, I know that can seem as me just being bitter, but none of this makes sense Link to post Share on other sites
Author mid-divorce Posted October 22, 2013 Author Share Posted October 22, 2013 The bang .. again I don't know, we slept together n fell asleep in each other's arms, I woke for work, nipped the toilet, she went down to make a drink, when I came down I went to hug her, she started shaking n crying n told me she never wanted to c me again ???? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mid-divorce Posted November 5, 2013 Author Share Posted November 5, 2013 Struggling here guys, can anyone pick me up n advise me please Link to post Share on other sites
RightThere Posted November 5, 2013 Share Posted November 5, 2013 Struggling here guys, can anyone pick me up n advise me please As to why she changed her mind? You haven't given much info as to what she said or did. If it's true she just dropped the bomb after mostly good times together, I would guess she's either been struggling with it and not telling you, or she has some severe mood swings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mid-divorce Posted November 5, 2013 Author Share Posted November 5, 2013 I really don't know. Only thing she's send since is that she wasn't really happy n was forcing it. But I don't know what the truth is, is that a lie to hurt me Link to post Share on other sites
RightThere Posted November 5, 2013 Share Posted November 5, 2013 Are you in marriage counselling? If not, get there. Otherwise if she's giving you zero, there isn't much you can do. Link to post Share on other sites
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