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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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In person, personality can shine and work its magic. Connections happen naturally, chemistry bubbles.

 

I'm now struggling to envision the OP's personality shining and magical … the chemistry bubbling, etc. It's not working. Maybe I need to watch "American Beauty" and "Avatar" again.

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There hasn't been one female respondent who's as old as you are, so this would be an inaccurate representation of this thread.

 

Right. Most of us are in our twenties and thirties.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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There hasn't been one female respondent who's as old as you are, so this would be an inaccurate representation of this thread.

 

What about MEEEEEEE? I'm old! And I don't think ageist men are perverts, either. Just not appealing. Thought that when I was young, think that when I'm old.

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Anela Established Member

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I'm now struggling to envision the OP's personality shining and magical … the chemistry bubbling, etc. It's not working. Maybe I need to watch "American Beauty" and "Avatar" again.

 

or Twilight... those guys are over a hundred years old, and marrying teenagers. They also sparkle in the sun. :laugh:

 

Oh, I'm so glad I clicked on this thread today.

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Eternal Sunshine Established Member

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Right. Most of us are in our twenties and thirties.

 

Women in their 30s are his target market. We should feel honored :rolleyes:

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What about MEEEEEEE? I'm old! And I don't think ageist men are perverts, either. Just not appealing. Thought that when I was young, think that when I'm old.
You're not as old as harry. Harry called everyone old but he's older. Imagine a shar-pei calling chihuahuas too wrinkly! :laugh:
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or Twilight... those guys are over a hundred years old, and marrying teenagers. They also sparkle in the sun. :laugh:

 

Oh, I'm so glad I clicked on this thread today.

Angel was 200 years older than Buffy! And see how that turned out?

 

Oh, wait. Never mind. . ..

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kaylan Established Member

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I am divorced and 52. Personality wise, I think I combine the calm, unemotional logic of Spock, especially in times of crisis, with the gentle, satire and humor of David Letterman. My intelligence and education is on the level of a university professor of philosophy or religion. Professionally, I work as a private duty nurse. (This is my second career; previously I was a computer programmer.) I'm 6'1" tall, grey hair, not bald, blue eyes, fair skin. I'm athletic but middle aged; imagine Michael Phelps' body at 50. People tell me that I look a lot like Dr Drew Pinsky.

 

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/16/DrDrew1SecondFilm.jpg

 

Anyway, my question is, why do all women under 40 tell me I am "too old" to date them?

 

Is it an appearance thing - I'm not cute enough? This surprises me a little, because I had the impression that appearance is not most women's top priority. Is it a social thing - she is worried what other people will say? Is it because I'm her father's age and she hates her father?

 

I'm just really curious and please be brutally honest.

Nowadays women can make their own money, hence they will care more about their attraction to a guy since they dont need just anyone to take care of them anymore.

 

Plus women under 40 want someone they can relate to. Guys in her age group will relate to her more. Not to mention if she still wants kids, a 50 yr old dad is a turn off.

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CailinPig Established Member

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HarryDubois,

I read most of this thread, and even as a 28 year old, I have to say I find it sad and offensive. HOWEVER, you are most definitely attracted to what you are attracted to, and that's not your fault.

 

But you need to stop saying that you are a sweet and kind person. Perhaps you are. But as you have seen from the reaction of most people on this thread, you are coming across as the absolute opposite. THIS, more than anything, could be the reason you're not attracting women. They may see through you.

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Eternal Sunshine Established Member

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HarryDubois,

I read most of this thread, and even as a 28 year old, I have to say I find it sad and offensive. HOWEVER, you are most definitely attracted to what you are attracted to, and that's not your fault.

 

But you need to stop saying that you are a sweet and kind person. Perhaps you are. But as you have seen from the reaction of most people on this thread, you are coming across as the absolute opposite. THIS, more than anything, could be the reason you're not attracting women. They may see through you.

 

People that are sweet and kind, don't go around telling everyone that they are "sweet and kind". It shines though....or in some cases doesn't.

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harrydubois Established Member

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Well, I for one must say I'm a little bit disappointed by this forum.

 

The fact that you all live in the same universe with me is a privilege.

 

Additionally, I have no doubt that given the opportunity I could seduce in 15 minutes or less every bird brained female who has commented here. And I'm talking about without my Cialis or even Viagra. Or even hair coloring.

 

You all wish I would post my photo here, in a manly shirtless pose flexing my biceps. But keep dreaming. You don't deserve that, females.

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Nowadays women can make their own money, hence they will care more about their attraction to a guy since they dont need just anyone to take care of them anymore.

 

And yet science still says women tend to marry men who earn more, the attractiveness of a mans wife will tend to correlate with his income and so on and on. I guess countless ages of genetic programming can't be undone in 50 years.

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Tenacity Established Member

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Well, I for one must say I'm a little bit disappointed by this forum.

 

The fact that you all live in the same universe with me is a privilege.

 

Additionally, I have no doubt that given the opportunity I could seduce in 15 minutes or less every bird brained female who has commented here. And I'm talking about without my Cialis or even Viagra. Or even hair coloring.

 

You all wish I would post my photo here, in a manly shirtless pose flexing my biceps. But keep dreaming. You don't deserve that, females.

 

This guy is either a troll or a complete idiot. Either way I think feeding his need for attention by continuing to post to him is a waste of our time and will just delude him into thinking he's important.

CailinPig Established Member

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HarryDubois,

 

I am now definitely thinking after your last post, that you're making all this up. That, or you're narcissistic and need help with your opinions of others.

If it's the first option - ha ha ha.

If it's the second, I genbuinely think you should talk to someone about how you see the world, and see do you have issues you need ironed out, with a professional.

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CailinPig Established Member

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Amen, Tenacity

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Awww, thanks. That's almost as nice as when TigressA said she would "remotely consider" banging me!

 

 

Damn right. ;)

 

After reading your responses in this thread, 'remotely consider' has been upgraded to 'most likely'. :laugh::love: I'm not a redhead though! :p

 

And after reading the OP's last post I'm predicting a total woman-hating sh*tstorm in 3, 2, 1...

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mesmerized Established Member

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And yet science still says women tend to marry men who earn more, the attractiveness of a mans wife will tend to correlate with his income and so on and on. I guess countless ages of genetic programming can't be undone in 50 years.

 

And yet there is an increasing amount of marriages in which the woman earns more. Given the number of educated woman, this number will only increase.

 

On another note, just because women like rich men it doesnt mean we fancy their wrinkles and ED problems. "Science" also says women mate with good looking genetically superior men and use the ugly rich men's resources to raise the offsprings. ;)

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Additionally, I have no doubt that given the opportunity I could seduce in 15 minutes or less every bird brained female who has commented here. And I'm talking about without my Cialis or even Viagra. Or even hair coloring.

 

Every girl's fantasy :rolleyes:

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your mom? :lmao:

 

And yet there is an increasing amount of marriages in which the woman earns more. Given the number of educated woman, this number will only increase.

 

On another note, just because women like rich men it doesnt mean we fancy their wrinkles and ED problems. "Science" also says women mate with good looking genetically superior men and use the ugly rich men's resources to raise the offsprings. ;)

mesmerized Established Member

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your mom? :lmao:

 

Yeah your mom should have done so too so you wouldnt have turned out so ugly. Have fun raising another man's child though ;)

 

Ps: women don't really get offended by "your mom" insults, use them where they work.

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yongyong Established Member

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It wasn't insults. you made all the other women whore like you. I was curious where you learned that whore attitude from.

'yeah we bang cute guys and use old men's money'

 

There is an old saying 'whores can only see whores'

 

 

 

Yeah your mom should have done so too so you wouldnt have turned out so ugly. Have fun raising another man's child though ;)

 

Ps: women don't really get offended by "your mom" insults, use them where they work.

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harrydubois Established Member

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In spite of all the spiteful comments being directed towards me, I know the truth.

 

I know that even the slightest caress of my hand on her cheek will ignite the lust of a nubile maiden with the intensity of an exploding blow torch.

 

However, females of this forum, you've blown it. I will never date anyone from this miserable little corner of cyberspace.

 

You can beg for mercy, but I'm sorry. There will be no reprieve.

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harrydubois Established Member

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My word is final.

mesmerized Established Member

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It wasn't insults. you made all the other women whore like you. I was curious where you learned that whore attitude from.

'yeah we bang cute guys and use old men's money'

 

There is an old saying 'whores can only see whores'

 

Lol thats not my whore attitude, that's what the same science he is refering to says. You like that word a lot though, im guessing you had to hear it a lot as a child when around mommy.

 

I've made it clear on this forum before that I only date and marry men I find attractive, so that clearly doesn't apply to me.

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In spite of all the spiteful comments being directed towards me, I know the truth.

 

I know that even the slightest caress of my hand on her cheek will ignite the lust of a nubile maiden with the intensity of an exploding blow torch.

 

However, females of this forum, you've blown it. I will never date anyone from this miserable little corner of cyberspace.

 

You can beg for mercy, but I'm sorry. There will be no reprieve.

 

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