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(men only) If a man says dont contact him anymore, dont or is he playing games?

sally1530

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sally1530

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Just wondering, when guys say dont contact them anymore... is that because of the heat of the moment with breakup... or is that as serious as it sounds... hes a stubborn guy, not sure if he wants me to chase him anymore ... havent seen him in 3 months. know he still has some feelings for me , we were to get married.....

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Samson

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not sure if he wants me to chase him anymore ... havent seen him in 3 months.

 

You're kidding, Right? :confused:

 

Well, I am: Why not wait 3 years? :laugh:

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im confused... do you think I should contact him? or not?

 

I think we have both cooled off a bit... and could talk about what happened.... I dont know.. I just miss him.... and I guess I still love him.... I wish I didnt but I do....

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In my experience, if a girl showed sincerity and seemed to really want to be with me... then I would most likely take her back if she showed one or two attempts to "win me back."

 

This is probably what you don't want to hear... but it's been 3 months now, you've done all you can to show that you still wanted to get back with him, and he's said no. I don't think he's just playing games anymore... I think you should move on now.

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If he says that he ment it. Don't contact him unless you want to damage yourself emotionally, Because what happens when you call and he says "Why did you call I told you not too" all it is going to do is hurt you more. If he wants to talk to you he will call you, and when he does I would say " Uhhh why are you calling? I thought you told me not to talk to you anymore."

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If he says that he ment it. Don't contact him unless you want to damage yourself emotionally, Because what happens when you call and he says "Why did you call I told you not too" all it is going to do is hurt you more. If he wants to talk to you he will call you, and when he does I would say " Uhhh why are you calling? I thought you told me not to talk to you anymore."

Hey NEWBIE (aka HORAKI)...this post is from the summer of 2004.

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