SunsetRed Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 I'm so involved w this show and the relationship btwn the married man main character and the OW. Last week showed the MM and his wife expressing their utter disdain for each other. They really do sleep in separate bedrooms and they really have lost their chemistry and love for each other...BUT..whatever...they'll still stay married. In this show the MM is President of the US and the wife is first lady, but even if they werent..they have one of those marriages which is basically a business relationship and not a love relationship BUT, they are still married and the OW is just someone he has passionate sex with but sees on the side. No matter how F-ed up his marriage is, he wont leave it and he will never make the OW his public loved one. It just reinforces my need to remain wise and not fall into a trap. Im 45 and I'll be 50 in 5 years. It would be sad and shameful to still be meeting a MMs sexual needs when I hit the big 5-0. In the next 5 years his wife will be getting cars, computers, trips ANYTHING she wants and she doesnt have to work. She gets all that and all I'd be getting would be the satisfaction of making him cum and maybe hearing that I'm incredible, but wtf...what are words when the wife gets him. Link to post Share on other sites
FightClub Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 SunsetRed, Perhaps the best thing about today is that you don't have the exMM, because all the faults you pointed out are exactly why you wouldn't want him. I think the most helpful thing is when we see for ourselves that other perspectives, like the show you've been watching, are prime examples of what we don't need. I know the age factor plays a big part in the way things change but hey, you are healthy and have a good sense of who you are, things could be much worse, right? -FC Link to post Share on other sites
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