aram7 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 So i have a question. say this girl really likes you, but you guys havent confirmed anything yet, meaning no kissing, no physical contact, no engagement of intimacy, no relationship announcement, and no dating. But there are alot of huge signs of her just trying to talk to you all the time, or sitting right next to you, playing with her hair, her just being really friendly towards you, etc. Would she be alright to the fact that I can just grab her ass or slap it, just for fun. haha. She does have a nice ass, but if i grab it and she is okay with it, that will let me know that she is definitely attracted to me and i could take this on to a whole another level in regards to dating.
MrCastle Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 It does take balls to do that and not fear the consequences, however the bad (being labeled a perv, her getting upset, turned off, etc) outweigh the good (grabbing and slapping a juicy ass). I would only try it on girls I've already gone on dates with. 2
sweetkiwi Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 you haven't even kissed? Sorry but unless she's a very special girl she's going to get mad. I have actually lost interest in a man that did this. 3
River Rain Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 A playful smack isn't too harmful considering you said you both are already flirting, but you just have to be prepared in case she thinks otherwise.
pteromom Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Kissing needs to come before ass smacking. 5
suladas Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I'd say the progression should be hugging/kissing first. Maybe then, but I prefer to wait until making out for the first time to be feeling them up.
River Rain Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I think it varies..I mean, feeling a girl up or giving a squeeze, then yeah, kissing first of course. But a playful and flirtatious little smack isn't a big deal, at least for me it isn't, if we're already flirting pretty heavily. 1
yongyong Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 You don't have balls to kiss her but you want to grab her ass???????? WTF? I grabbed this girl's ass without kissing her though. I brought 2 sisters back to my place from the club. This older one talked to me first but I changed my mind to the younger one. I sat in the middle, just talked with them and couldn't do anything since they were sisters. They were leaving and while giving them a hug, I grabbed little sister's ass to let her know I liked her more than her big sister. unless you have a special situation like this, go traditional way.
dasein Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 If she puts the ass right in your hand, go ahead, but agree with kiwi and ptero generally. Kiss before ass, but never ass to mouth
crude Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 If her ass is the size of Kim Kardashian's, go for it, she probably wouldn't feel it anyway.
pteromom Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I think it varies..I mean, feeling a girl up or giving a squeeze, then yeah, kissing first of course. But a playful and flirtatious little smack isn't a big deal, at least for me it isn't, if we're already flirting pretty heavily. And for me, it could possibly be a dealbreaker. No hands on any of my private areas until I give the OK to move forward to that. If a guy I hadn't kissed yet smacked my ass, I would be put off by it.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I wouldn't mind any woman I didn't know pinching my butt. If it was a guy though it'd be a different story.
Author aram7 Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 You don't have balls to kiss her but you want to grab her ass???????? WTF? lol never have i mentioned that i said, i dont have the balls to kiss her. you just jumping to conclusions there buddy, slow down horsey. its not that i dont have the balls to kiss her, its just i havent done so yet or that thought never crossed my mind yet. theres a fine line between being afraid to do so vs not doing it
ThaWholigan Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I wouldn't mind any woman I didn't know pinching my butt. If it was a guy though it'd be a different story. It does get annoying actually .
Ross MwcFan Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 It does get annoying actually . Women pinching your but or men? Lol. 1
ThaWholigan Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Women pinching your but or men? Lol. Why, men of course . (Yes homo)
AlexDP Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I wouldn't mind any woman I didn't know pinching my butt. If it was a guy though it'd be a different story. Well, I can assure you that I do mind women I don't know pinching my butt. It has happened to me and I can tell you that it is not as uncommon as you might think. I suppose these women did it jokingly and I didn't get mad or anything, but it's not fun either. 1
phineas Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 A co-worker let a guy she just met at a bar do this. Made fun of him after & then went out with him a few weeks later. Oh and tries to flirt with me in e-mail. I'm trying really hard to find even a little respect for her since I have to work closely with her on a recent project but honestly i'm just seeing a cum-dumpster when-ever I look at her.
HeldbyGravity Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Kissing needs to come before ass smacking. Even though this post made me giggle, I agree. Kissing first. Then I would maybe talk about what she's comfortable with, or take the physical progression slowly until you get to TOUCHING her there... THEN it may be okay to do it. Depends what kinda girl she is too!
phineas Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Even though this post made me giggle, I agree. Kissing first. Then I would maybe talk about what she's comfortable with, or take the physical progression slowly until you get to TOUCHING her there... THEN it may be okay to do it. Depends what kinda girl she is too! IDK. a lot of "Movie night's" I had them half naked & my hand between their legs before we kissed. It seemed trying to kiss them first totally killed the "it just happened" excuse for them. Yes, I realize how screwed up those women were. LOL!
todreaminblue Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 So i have a question. say this girl really likes you, but you guys havent confirmed anything yet, meaning no kissing, no physical contact, no engagement of intimacy, no relationship announcement, and no dating. But there are alot of huge signs of her just trying to talk to you all the time, or sitting right next to you, playing with her hair, her just being really friendly towards you, etc. Would she be alright to the fact that I can just grab her ass or slap it, just for fun. haha. She does have a nice ass, but if i grab it and she is okay with it, that will let me know that she is definitely attracted to me and i could take this on to a whole another level in regards to dating. I think it disrespectful and not a first physical contact you should have with a girl...reminds me of farm animals being smacked on the ass to move it like cows and horses....not a very flirty thing actually.....and grabbing an ass....well to me that makes you an ass.......in my opinion i was shown how to sweep kick someone who did this to me....self defense move...its harassment to me..three areas i have no go zones reserved for partners only....are my neck my breasts and my ass...but i have issues.....with personal space.....i wouldn't suggest it unless you were actually seriously involved with someone.....and i wouldn't if i were you make ti your first contact with a female.....sets the game a bit....deb
2sunny Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 It's a terribly disrespectful and degrading move - without the prior intimacy to pull it off. I'd venture to say if a guy did this to me - I most likely hit him at this stage of me feeling healthy and knowing he crossed a boundary that disrespected me. If you want to touch - ya might want to ask permission first!!! 1
GirlontheLam Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 This might work around .000001% of the time. So if you think those are good odds, go for it. To be real, there really aren't that many scenarios where I would think it was ok. And 90% of them seem to be related to halloween costumes. I'd say, unless she is carrying a whip, keep her butt contact free until you get a little bit closer to the kissing stage.
MrCastle Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 If you want to touch - ya might want to ask permission first!!! Excuse me, may I please slap your ass? Open palm on your right cheek.
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