MissJoness Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 He's married but he's always flirting with me and giving me bedroom eyes. I live alone and I could use some company. I know it would be so convenient for him as his wife would never find out about this. He's really attractive What do you think? Should I avoid him? Link to post Share on other sites
Scarlett5 Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 Yes! Find a single guy, some girl friends, a hobby. NOT a married man - you'll feel more alone than ever. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted November 2, 2012 Author Share Posted November 2, 2012 Yes! Find a single guy, some girl friends, a hobby. NOT a married man - you'll feel more alone than ever.I don't think I'll be alone. He's ALWAYS in the building working. I'd see him almost everyday Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 I don't think I'll be alone. He's ALWAYS in the building working. I'd see him almost everyday Don't wreck someone else's relationship....regardless of its current state or his willingness.....JMO 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Scarlett5 Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 I don't think I'll be alone. He's ALWAYS in the building working. I'd see him almost everyday I didn't mean alone in a physical sense 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 He's married but he's always flirting with me and giving me bedroom eyes. I live alone and I could use some company. I know it would be so convenient for him as his wife would never find out about this. He's really attractive What do you think? Should I avoid him? Eww :sick: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sweetkiwi Posted November 2, 2012 Share Posted November 2, 2012 don't even think about it. Relationship karma is real. Find an available guy. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 He's married but he's always flirting with me and giving me bedroom eyes. I live alone and I could use some company. I know it would be so convenient for him as his wife would never find out about this. He's really attractive What do you think? Should I avoid him? Yes, avoid him. Find a single guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Sporty Girl Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 I had a friend that I used to hang around with that did this. She was really dirty though. She would meet all kinds of men off the chat lines, and then have unprotected sex with them, even if she was dating somebody she would always screw around. She ended up having sex with the guy that did maintenence through the apartment building, and many people knew about it. This guy was married and had 5 kids. He wasn't only banging her, but other women that lived there. His wife suspected, I kept my mouth shut, none of my business. I would avoid him at all costs. You are going to cause drama where you live, and people in the building will find out. What about his wife? What's going to happen when she finds out? Why do you want to ruin somebody else's marriage, when yes there are many single men out there. You just don't care do you. So what if he is attractive, or flirts, or makes eyes at you. Leave him alone, and just be a tenant like you are supposed to be. Don't be that homewrecker. This will give you really bad karma, that when you do get involved with somebody else on an serious it will go back to you. Yep, and very ewwwwwwwwwww:sick: Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 Just think how many other women in the building he flirts with. Do you believe you're the only one? So yeah, IF you choose to bang him, (which I hope you don't!) make sure he wears a condom. Who knows how many chicky's are lusting after him like you are... Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted November 3, 2012 Author Share Posted November 3, 2012 How am I the one ruining the marriage? I didn't take any vows Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 Hi Troll! Who's a good troll? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted November 3, 2012 Author Share Posted November 3, 2012 Hi Troll! Who's a good troll?Please stop trashing my thread Link to post Share on other sites
mercy Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 He's married but he's always flirting with me and giving me bedroom eyes. I live alone and I could use some company. I know it would be so convenient for him as his wife would never find out about this. He's really attractive What do you think? Should I avoid him? Oh noes not the bedroom eyes! What do I think? hmmm It doesn't matter that he's married, right? Then it doesn't matter what I think. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 He's married but he's always flirting with me and giving me bedroom eyes. I live alone and I could use some company. I know it would be so convenient for him as his wife would never find out about this. He's really attractive What do you think? Should I avoid him? If it was a lovely idea you'd not be here. Don't let loneliness control you. His wife "never" finding out is not necessarily true. I suppose you are falling into the ever popular trap of: "Oh I just need company, it will be no strings attached, just a little hanging out and sex until I say no more". It is possible to have NSA with a taken man. His wife may still find out though. But the only way it works from my experience, did it once was: 1)He was not someone I'd ever really date, so I had no emotional feelings for him. He was sexy, we were cool enough to vibe on a flirting, superficial level, he was funny and we had chemistry. But he didn't have anything else that would make me fall for him 2) I did not speak to him often unless it was the flirting leading up to us setting time out to get together and maybe watch a movie and then have sex 3)Once he was gone, he was out of sight and out of mind. 4)Because I didn't want to date him, when he was gone I never got jealous, never wanted to cuddle with him, never wanted to be his gf or wife or have a future, see # 3, I just never really thought that much about him except when I wanted sex or just a little company. If it's not like that and if this man is someone you develop feelings for...which often happens, then it will not be so easy and wonderful. Even with the aforementioned guy, at one point, because of loneliness I'd want him to sleepover and spend the night, then I realized how that may make things awkward and I refrained thankfully, as he wasn't a man I'd date, even if he were single, but our emotions are often such that we can and do get involved once we start doing certain things with someone. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 Hmm. I work in an apt complex. I wonder if any of our maintenance guys are banging residents! That's pretty inappropriate! Is he really your only option? What a creep, trolling the community for residents to "give bedroom eyes" to How professional! Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted November 3, 2012 Author Share Posted November 3, 2012 Hmm. I work in an apt complex. I wonder if any of our maintenance guys are banging residents! That's pretty inappropriate! Is he really your only option? What a creep, trolling the community for residents to "give bedroom eyes" to How professional! He's not a creep. The guy is pretty nice. Maybe he's just not satisfied with his marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
geegirl Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 How am I the one ruining the marriage? I didn't take any vows But you do have a conscience? The ability and the need to do the right thing? If your sister or mother were being cheated on, how would you feel for them? The wife may be a stranger to you but know you'll be a contributing factor to her pain and an enabler to cheating. If that thought doesnt even phase you, then it speaks of who you are. The kind that has no inkling of what it means to have empathy and compassion for another. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Minka333 Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 Puh-leeez do not become one of his victims! Don't feed his twisted ego. Do not reek of desperation. You can do better than that. You mentioned in your other thread that you don't have a hard time attracting men. So why don't you just pick a single, unattached guy. Link to post Share on other sites
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