Stockholmes Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 Not sure if I should be concern about this but sometimes not only does she shows up unexpectedly at my door but also at my workplace. She still expresses how we can get back and how the other woman I'm dating isn't worth it. The reason I broke up with her is because she would keep creating arguments for no reason and make me feel like I'm the bad guy in the story. I felt as if nothing I ever did or say was right. What made me break up for good was when we almost had an accident. I was in her car and all I recalled she got mad and drove fast. Who drives like that because of an argument? Her mother later on told me about her and how she has always gotten like that when someone contradicts her, she feels threatened or doesn't get her way. Later on, I heard she got expelled from high school in 10th grade for trying to throw a book at a teacher but missed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Stockholmes Posted November 3, 2012 Author Share Posted November 3, 2012 I don't want to talk to her at all and have told her more than twice that it's over but according to her it's not and says one day we will get back. What part of it's over doesn't she understand? But needless to say I'm starting to get concerned. Isn't what she's doing stalking? Link to post Share on other sites
Sazerac Posted November 3, 2012 Share Posted November 3, 2012 It is definitely stalking behavior. If she is disturbing you at your workplace, it may be time to consider taking out a restraining order against her. Personally, I'd feel creepy all over with this happening. A good friend of mine had a girl do this to him; was actually following him all over town, knew where he was at all hours. She finally moved on to someone else - but that doesn't always work (i.e., don't count on it). Link to post Share on other sites
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