want to know my Family??

[pari]

Hallo, many of you know my problem. I've been 3y with this guy. He hearted me ones, he has one night affair with other woman, he had been honest to tell me the whole story.

 

i was really so upset. i can't get pass on it. But still we live in the same house. on december i wan't to fly to my home, where my family lives. He wants to come with me and want to know my family. my Famiy, they are really conservative, i mean they don't want to have, that the daughter goes around. so i can't introduce him to my father, if he is not my finance or my husband. I told him "that i can take you to my home, but i can't take you to my father". but he feels. i coul'd have taken him to home, if he hadn't have one night affair. I can convience my family, it would be no problem. but now i'm not sure if i as "individual person" wants to stay with him. i'm just now with him because, i really can't sort out mey feeling right now. i need a help?? shoul'd i take him to my father?? should i take the risk for this guy, to take hime home??? should i give him one more chance??? How he behave now every woman can give him a second chance, but you know you can't be sure,???

[Deejette]

If he only had one affair and he told you about it, I think you can forgive him and give him another chance. You can tell him about how serious your family is about man-woman relationships and let him know that he has to be serious about your future if he is to meet your father. Then take him to your father and see how your father reacts. If they get along, good. If they don't, then you need to rethink your relationship with him. It doesn't sound like you love him enough to deal with the displeasure of your family for the rest of your life as long as you stay with this guy.

Hallo, many of you know my problem. I've been 3y with this guy. He hearted me ones, he has one night affair with other woman, he had been honest to tell me the whole story. i was really so upset. i can't get pass on it. But still we live in the same house. on december i wan't to fly to my home, where my family lives. He wants to come with me and want to know my family. my Famiy, they are really conservative, i mean they don't want to have, that the daughter goes around. so i can't introduce him to my father, if he is not my finance or my husband. I told him "that i can take you to my home, but i can't take you to my father". but he feels. i coul'd have taken him to home, if he hadn't have one night affair. I can convience my family, it would be no problem. but now i'm not sure if i as "individual person" wants to stay with him. i'm just now with him because, i really can't sort out mey feeling right now. i need a help?? shoul'd i take him to my father?? should i take the risk for this guy, to take hime home??? should i give him one more chance??? How he behave now every woman can give him a second chance, but you know you can't be sure,???