Do you know any short guys who are successful with women

[Sun Devil]

I have no problem dating very tall women. I just want to know if height is just another physical trait women will overlook or is it one of the most important trait a man can have

[Hawakai]

I am wondering if there are short guys under 5foot 4 who were successful at picking up women. If you do know any, tell me how did they attract women. Did they use pua material, did they have lots of money, or did they just have an amazing personality. Did these guys also get taller women. I am curious because I am trying to overcome my height and be able to get girls.

 

I know quite a few. They're dating tall, fit and good-looking women. All of those guys are rich, have doctorates or have valuable properties. You're not going to get any play from women in your looks-wise range, you better not have any hopes of having anything happen with above average women.

[Delicate]

I'm about 5'5 and I would date a short guy. But he'd just have to at least be my height. I find men my height attractive if they are also facially attractive and in shape. I think you should just try and find a short girl!

[silicone]

I'm about 5'5 and I would date a short guy. But he'd just have to at least be my height. I find men my height attractive if they are also facially attractive and in shape. I think you should just try and find a short girl!

 

He's shorter than you, and most shorter girls either want someone taller or much taller; rarely do you even see a short girl content with someone their height or shorter.

[Sun Devil]

Silicone, you mentioned that you dealt with rejection for 3 years. In that time frame, how many rejections did you experience? I ask because I want to know if you were constantly approaching women or did you just rely on social circle.

[jcrew11]

Its mostly about personality. Learn some good jokes. Try to be funny or self-depricating. But also remember, that a girl will like you if you make HER life better and happier by being around. If you are a positive, happy, jovial person with a smile on your face, then that will make girls happy as well.

 

If she's having a bad day, and you start talking to her and making her feel better and giving her life meaning when you are around, then she will want to KEEP you around longer.

 

Think of yourself as a "rich man" and you are trying to make "other people's lives better"

[Sun Devil]

Silicone, I want to know how many rejections you had to face before you got your girl. Did you use your social circle or did you use cold approach?

[silicone]

Silicone, you mentioned that you dealt with rejection for 3 years. In that time frame, how many rejections did you experience? I ask because I want to know if you were constantly approaching women or did you just rely on social circle.

 

How many? well over 100.

 

It got to the point where I just stopped. Then someone fell in love with me.

 

A lot were in my social circle.

[Sun Devil]

I guess that you got lucky. There are hardly any girls in my social circle and everytime I expand it, I just get more guys. I will do whatever it takes to get a girl before I finish college. Did you ever use pick up artist material on women?

[Hawakai]

He wasn't dealt any card at all. And telling the guy to man-up is like telling Brad Pitt to stop being so good-looking. With the exception of a desfigurating car-accident, I'm not seeing it happen.

 

Sun Devil. I've read your threads. What you want is to date womem from several nationalities. Meaning, you want the lifestyle of the Player. Perfectly possible, and I'll tell you how you can do it.

 

Satisfy yourself with porn for the time being(until you finish your degree) and then find a job. You don't have to earn a lot, just by being single(not dating at all) and by having no children you can amass quite the bank account.

 

Then you visit Europe, Asia, and South America. For now prostititution is legal in Europe. It'll spread to all of the other continents, but start there. In a matter of a year you will have slept with hundreds of women if you so wish, from many different Countries.

 

Don't feel bad about paying for it. Sex is never free. The slick-looking fella who brings a woman home payed hundreds if not thousands when he bought his suit. The tall fella is paying for the ''free'' sex with all of the height-related problems that come at later age.

 

Sex, unless you are a woman, is never free. No matter how it might seem when you look at other guys with girlfriends(and relationships are supremely expensive).

[GirlontheLam]

Quite a lot actually. One of my friends has been dating this guy for years. And we all think he is pretty lame actually. He is 5.5". Average looking. Never opens doors. And really isn't that great.

 

My friend is a great catch! She's really cute, slim, blond, and has a cute European accent. She's also has a bubbly personality and is really smart. He's way out of his league. Lucky him.

 

So stop blaming stuff on your height and start working on believing yo can be successful.

[Hawakai]

Quite a lot actually. One of my friends has been dating this guy for years. And we all think he is pretty lame actually. He is 5.5". Average looking. Never opens doors. And really isn't that great.

 

My friend is a great catch! She's really cute, slim, blond, and has a cute European accent. She's also has a bubbly personality and is really smart. He's way out of his league. Lucky him.

 

So stop blaming stuff on your height and start working on believing yo can be successful.

 

My ancestors originated from an European Country. Many hundreds of years ago, the people who later built what is now my ancestral homeland fought against an extremely powerful army. They won. What are the chances of that happening, anyway? Very slim.

 

Sun Devil should concentrate on getting his life together right now while he's young. He has plenty of time to get laid.

[Content]

No ive never seen a man under 5'10" with a women EVER:rolleyes:

 

My god some of these threads makes you wonder if people ever go outside and see the light of day..

 

I see men and women of all different height attractivness levels etc in relationships the idea only tall men or good looking people are having sex is assinine..

 

Do most women "prefer" a taller men im sure but im sure most guys prefer a slim women with a huge ass and breasts but we dont always get our ideal..

[Sun Devil]

Hawakai, hookers are only a temporary solution. I plan on having a family of my own and I want to have a wife and kids of my own someday.

[dreamingoftigers]

No ive never seen a man under 5'10" with a women EVER:rolleyes:

 

My god some of these threads makes you wonder if people ever go outside and see the light of day..

 

I see men and women of all different height attractivness levels etc in relationships the idea only tall men or good looking people are having sex is assinine..

 

Do most women "prefer" a taller men im sure but im sure most guys prefer a slim women with a huge ass and breasts but we dont always get our ideal..

 

My husband is 5'9" and he was quite the slut when he was younger....

 

But there is another short guy that I know that did quite well for himself. He had a pretty decent personality and was very gracious about things. I had a crush on him until I found out he had a history of cutting.

 

We did end up becoming great friends and even roommates for six years.

 

He did not have a shortage of women! At one point he dated five girls named Jen in a row (oh boy we had fun teasing him about that, especially with the last one: "she prefers to be called 'Jenny.'") one of them used to shriek like a cat when then did it too. Ugh.

 

Anyhow, he's married now with a kid.

[Hawakai]

Hawakai, hookers are only a temporary solution. I plan on having a family of my own and I want to have a wife and kids of my own someday.

 

Yeah, I heard alimony and child-support theft are pretty good. Good luck with your quest.

[Sun Devil]

You cannot create a family or find love with hookers. Before you say anything about alimony and divorce, look up maslows hierarchy of needs about family and intimacy.

[somedude81]

5'9 isn't short.

 

I would be absolutely ecstatic if I could be 5'9.

[threebyfate]

The ex-H has this one friend who's 5'6". He's a softer man, not very vocal, not terribly funny but without smarm, he can wheedle his way into any woman's heart. It's the way he looks at you, as if you're the only person that matters in the room, his eyes filled with admiration and caring. When he speaks to you, it's in an intimate manner, as if the two of you have known each other for years and you're the only person he wants to speak to. Damn, that man's hawt!

 

Needless to say, the ladies love him. He's even made my own heart go pitter, patter a time or two and I'm a tough sell.

[dreamingoftigers]

5'9 isn't short.

 

I would be absolutely ecstatic if I could be 5'9.

 

I don't find it short either.

 

I quoted for context.

 

But come to think of it I dated someone shorter than my friend even. He must've been around 5'2".

 

He was a nice enough guy, but too pushy.

[Southtexgringo]

Yeah I do. If you dont believe me go to a crowded event or busy street and do some people watching. You will see the heights average out among couples. Don't just look at 1 or 2 but look at closer to 100 to get a more accurate average. You will be surprised at how many Tall girls with short guys you see. You will also be surprised who has the better looking women. If you still feel short and hopeless go to south Texas (South of San Antonio and West of Corpus Christi) where the population is one great big melting pot of whites and Mexicans. Mexican women are much less discriminating of short white men but be warned. Once you go black you never go back. In this case Mexican. Especially the ones straight from Mexico although watch out for the ones who just want a Greencard but if you want children it can be a win/win anyway. Houston is also pretty cool because of all the Orientals who are short and highly intelligent. Let the white women breed for mulattos and football players and you will be better off.

[Sun Devil]

It has been over 6 months since anyone updated this thread. We have gotten new members and I wonder if they can answer this question

[Mr_Flay]

Give Danny Devito a call. I am certain he could tell you all you need to know.

 

I could be vicious and say that he didn't exactly marry the prettiest Hollywood actress.

[joystickd]

I knew a guy that was short that was successful. Back in high school he was with the hottest girls in school. Guys were just jealous of him. I look back on it now and he had the confidence and was just smooth. The apple didnt fall far from the tree because his dad was the same way. The main thing is if it bother you then it becomes an issue with them.

[Revolver]

Why Do Women All Seem to Want Taller Men? - eHarmony Advice

 

"It is also noted that height is a “masculine” characteristic. Taller men may be seen as more dominant and assertive (Melamed, 1992). In evolutionary terms, a larger man may have been able to provide more protection to their offspring, have greater genetic qualities to pass on to their future children, and thus may be awarded with greater social status. In line with this idea that height is an indicator of good evolutionary success, researchers found that taller men were more likely to have at least one biological child compared to shorter men (Pawlowski, Dunbar, & Lipowicz, 2000).

 

Culture also plays a big part in what we like and what is valued in society. Women may learn to value men who are rewarded in society. For example, taller men may be seen as more powerful and attractive, so women who are with taller men benefit by attaining a higher social status. In addition, if height signals physical dominance, it is likely that taller men make women feel smaller, protected, and perhaps more “feminine” as well. In line with this idea, research has found that women with more “traditional” gender role expectations were less willing to date shorter men (Salska, et al., 2008)."