kodiak Posted August 4, 2004 Share Posted August 4, 2004 Finally i cam to a conclusion and it hurts like hell but im beggining to realize it. Everyone can get all the details from my thread "ex girlfriend called, need some advice", if anyone wants to give me some advice. I kept wondering how on earth someone who vowed they loved you and truly showed it can drop you like you didnt even matter to them. I feel as if i dont even exist or that my ex doesnt even remember who i am. i have never been in a relationship before that ended with absolutely no contact. My ex before my most recent ex who was the biggest lying #@$%$% would even call me once in awhile to see how i was. She even told me that she never loved me like a boyfriend and that it was just a conveniant thing. My most recent ex who did so much for me doesnt even bother to acknowledge me. She ignores every attempt ive made to see how she is and when she called and i returned her call she just ignored me. My conclusion was that i guess she either met someone better than me or never really loved me and could care less about how i feel. It kills me inside to beleive this because the day we broke up she said that she was telling me the truth and would never lie to me. Anyways i guess sometimes you get fooled into believing someone truly loved you. i know that my love for her is so real despite what has happend. I know this because even though she might have left me for someone else or never really loved me, I still hope that she is doing well and is truly happy. Link to post Share on other sites
stupidguy Posted August 4, 2004 Share Posted August 4, 2004 I hear you kodiak. I know how you feel. My ex made it a point to make me believe she truly loved me right up till the day she dumped me hard. I still dont know why she turned off so fast , and havent heard from her for 2 weeks now. I keep asking the same thing you do here..How can this be? The thing is I really dont want to know why, it may hurt more to know, dig? Hang in there, your not alone. Cheers, JL aka stupidguy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kodiak Posted August 4, 2004 Author Share Posted August 4, 2004 I have a question for you my brother. Did you ever ask yoru girlfriend what happened. If she fell out of love with you or if she wanted to be with someone else. She should give you a reason and if she doesnt thats jacked up. Sure it might hurt but I asked my ex and although it still doesnt seem all that clear i have some clarity. My problem is that although my ex never lied to me I still cant help my mmind from telling me that what she told me wasnt the truth. That was my problem from the beggining. Anyways how long did you and your ex date for? Two weeks is not alot of time at all. Dont fret boss!!! I have known friends that have broken up with there exes for months and one almost a whole year and ended up getting married. Im at two months and yes i am moving on, but there will always be a part of me that has some hope. Good Luck!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 when it comes to relationships FOR women if you do ONE minute of wrong (besides cheating) it ends a 1 month to 1 year relationship within days! You see unless the female species gets that $5000 engagement ring, marriage (where you pay 75% of everything) she will not completely commit with you. And usually the females will not marry unless the man is 1. VERY WELL OFF ($$$, don't BS women) 2. SHE IS TOO OLD (notice how they start getting desperate around the age of 28-32) Link to post Share on other sites
kyndrad77 Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 OUCH Dork! Okay, you've had bad experiences, but that is definitely not true! One: I am 26, NOT OLD Two: I am gorgeous Three: the last three guys I commited myself to were broke! I made more money than my last boyfriend who just dumped me. Unfortunately it has always been a case with me that these guys take off, and eventually come back, but it has ALWAYS been too late. I try to work it out. I even dated my ex husband for a few months after our separation. Not all women are b@#ches, just like not all guys are a**h***s. Any girl who dumps a guy over some stupid minute wrong thing is an immature one, and guys are just as guilty of that. If you want a girl back that's done something like this you're going to have to wait until she grows up, or it will just happen again. Eventually, HOPEFULLY we all have to grow up. Just to help establish reality... AND... $5,000 in an engagement ring is not that much. Link to post Share on other sites
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