What are my ex's intentions?

[Jai]

Hello all,

 

Lately my ex has been acting weird. She is kind of stringing me along so to speak by talking to me and so on. Can someone give me some true signs that an ex wants you back? and what are some signs that your ex doesn't want you back?

 

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

Thanks,

 

Jai

[Pocky]

Why bother with the "interpreting the signs" scenario and just ask what her intention is?

[Jai]

I do ask her and she doesn't say anything really. She seemed very upset when i told her that i never want to speak to her again but i am not sure what that means

 

 

ANyone,

 

Jai

[Lonestar]

Jeez, Pocky, don't we all try to interpret the signs? Asking someone straight out how we feel would be all too easy for us.

 

Jai,

 

She seemed very upset when i told her that i never want to speak to her again

 

That should tell you something, but not neccessarily if she wants you back. Obviously she still cares to have you around. You could try no contact for awhile or ask her, as several people here will tell you. I prefer not to ask because I don't trust what anyone says in the game of love, especially "second chance" love. That is a complete game on both ends. Good luck.

[Dork]

I'm going with Lonestar on this one. Especially on the "what intentions" question - ask that after you two are doing "well" with each other after getting back together and are totally comfortable with communicating with each other. Cause if you both aren't, that "intentions" question might put her on the spotlight too abruptly.

 

For the signs thing..Dude you should know when the two people act sweet on the phone there is a sense of romantic bondshop. It's just stuff like that. Or were you expecting the girl to bat her eyelashes at you or something?

 

And for the "signs of disinterest" if she ignores you a lot - then you got your answer.