confused and lonley Posted August 4, 2004 Share Posted August 4, 2004 just a brief story before i ask my question. i have been with this guy for 8 years. we have 3 kids together and one on the way. he meet someone online and wants to be with her. but she hasn't not come down yet. i have been with him since we have broken up and he refuses to tell her about it. should i stay friends with him or what should i do? i love this man with all my heart but i have accepted that he doesn't want me that he wants this other woman. i am just so confused. and don't know what to do about this. Link to post Share on other sites
rachelcarney Posted August 4, 2004 Share Posted August 4, 2004 It sounds like right now you are second-place in his heart. You don't have to put up with that, he won't ever respect you if he thinks that you're wiling to be his "back-up" girlfriend. Try to stay friendly for the sake of the kids, but I think you should stand up for yourself and tell him it's either you in first-place in his heart, or not at all. Link to post Share on other sites
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