TheVoski Posted November 11, 2012 Share Posted November 11, 2012 Okay, my wife left me about a month ago for a straight bottom of the barrel loser. The whole story is on this thread with information that has happened through out the last month posted in this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/354372-my-wife-left-me-10.html Anyways, where I am at now is our daughter has been staying at my parents due to the craziness. She is now claiming my father molests/harms our child and went and picked her up yesterday to call me less then 3 hours later to drop her off to me. I got her, since I work all the time and my lawyer said it was best for the child to be at my parents till this blows over, I brought my daughter back up there. Now she is texting me this morning, when I told her last night I'm going to keep her a few days, to get our daughter tonight since its a holiday weekend. When I got my daughter yesterday my daughter, who is only 4, is saying that "daddy and mommy aren't friends and that mommy doesn't like daddy and mommy hates daddy." So, it's obvious my WS is bad mouthing me to or/and in front of her. I don't know what to do .. I'm so lost and confused in my whole situation. Link to post Share on other sites
emmaclark99999 Posted November 11, 2012 Share Posted November 11, 2012 When your marriage is no longer working and you are on the brink of divorce, you may attempt a trial separation first. The two of you live apart and see if you can work your differences out by giving each other some space. You may view it as a last ditch effort to save your marriage, and in reality, it is. You meet once in a while to discuss what both of you feel has caused the break down of your marriage with the hopes of resolving these issues and reconciling. A trial separation is not much easier to cop with than a divorce, however, here are some ways that may make it easier for you. 1. Let Your Emotions Flow Before you can forge ahead you must let your emotions go. You may be sad and want to cry, or perhaps you are angry. It is not healthy to hold these feelings in. No, a trial separation does not mean the end of your relationship, but you are still losing something. Your spouse is living elsewhere and this takes time to adjust to. Turn to friends and family who will listen to you without judging you or telling you it will be okay. No one knows this but Father Time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TheVoski Posted November 12, 2012 Author Share Posted November 12, 2012 She told my neighbor across the street that she believes she is pregnant by her OM because they had unprotected sex one time but at the end of September before she left we had sex to try and have a baby 2-3 times. .. how can she be pregnant by OM and claim she never had an affair in court. She told them she has taken two pregnancy tests, both came back negative but she has morning sickness, eating a lot, and smells make her nauseous. And that she knows her body. A couple of the people believe she isn't pregnant and the neighbor is wondering if she told them to see if they'd tell me but not to say anything to her - which I won't. I don't know what to do because if she is pregnant she can't just assume it's the OM with what went on between us. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TheVoski Posted November 13, 2012 Author Share Posted November 13, 2012 I'm just tired of feeling this way. I go out every night to local bars and such drinking. I'm not a alcoholic - it just makes me forget and to sleep. I'm just so lonely. Link to post Share on other sites
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