charly26 Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 t happens to me that even though I know that my ex and I will never get back together, in some way, I care or am glad that she's doing fine. It's been almost two years that we broke it off and just 2 months ago we met and had a nice outing. Then there have been some emails exchanging and that was it. I won't deny that sometimes I daydream of the good times we had together or fantisize, but then I go back to reality. I hardly ever check her Facebook profile picture and I feel good to see her well. I remember blocking her in the past as part of the no contact thing to get over her, but now it's just ok seeing some of her pics. (we are not facebook friends btw, some of her pics are public). Have you ever felt that way for that special ex who you fell in love? Idon't feel bad about it and sometimes I wonder if I will always want to know how well she is in some way or another, not like a person who is pending of her life, not at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Minka333 Posted November 13, 2012 Share Posted November 13, 2012 Yes it's normal. I felt that way too. Once acceptance happens, everything seems to start getting easier. They slowly become a distant memory that we fondly remember during melancholic moments. The intensity of what you once had will decrease over time. You may always care for them but it will no longer be the same. You are on the right track... Link to post Share on other sites
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