joeyNoelle Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 Hey Guys , I'm new to this site and have a dilemma. I was seeing this guy for a month or so, i was dealing with some personal issues at the time which held me back from opening up to him. I acted cold and aloof , the thing is that i really liked him, but one morning he chucked a mini tantrum and i got fed up so i forced him into a corner saying ' is there something you need to tell me' and he said he didn't think it was going to work. then i heard nothing from him for 2 weeks, then he messaged me telling me how his first day back to classes were and asked how i had been, now its just all very friendly we arranged to do something a while ago but it didn't happen , i messaged him last week to see what he was upto that night and he messaged me back saying he had some dinner and was going home to sleep , and to have fun. i don't know if he is just being polite. Basically i still have feelings for him, i tried meeting and seeing new people but i just don't feel anything. Do you think there is a chance he is still interested, my friends say he seems confused and is 'keeping his options open'but he always seems happy to see me. your comments are appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 Meet with him and see how he responds. Tell him why you acted the way you did and apologize for being distant with him. Tell him you've sorted things out and you're in a more comfortable place in your life. See how he responds. Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 How do you tell he wants you back? You already said it, if he seems happy to see you then you got your answer. Go meet up with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joeyNoelle Posted August 6, 2004 Author Share Posted August 6, 2004 The thing i forgot to mention is that we study in the same building so occasionally i have bumped into him. first i saw him went over and said hi how are you going etc chatted for a while then i said i had some work to do and i left. then i saw him a couple days later i was at a computer he came in stood behind me then touched my back and said hey. he sat down next to me to do his work, i was talking and helping out this guy who needed help on his computer. My ex was checking his emails and laughing a little to get attention it seemed like. then we did some work and he printed out this document that wasn't coming out right. i said let me see and he showed me and he came in very close. then the other guy asked for more help , my ex waited till i finished talking to other guy before saying he had sooo much reading to do and he was gonna go home. next time i went to get coffe and he was in front of me in the line. he got his coffee i got mine and i went to put my bag down so i could put my wallet away he came next to me, he went to get sugar and i left to go outside in the sun, he came out walked down the path turned around waved and smiled and he went inside. next time i was in a lift with him and one of my male friends , i was chatting to my friend when he got in i didn't aknowledge him . got out said seeya to my friend and caught up with ex said hey how are you? we chatted and he brought up the fact that i had apparently met his new roomate at a party. i don't even know who this guy is but either roomate mentioned i met this girl blah blah blah, or ex asked his roomate if that happened to be the same party that he knew i was going to because i told him about it and he messaged me saying he was just going to have a quiet one. so as you can see i have 'seen' him but i can't read him at all. Link to post Share on other sites
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